Humble Yourself to the Wisdom of Elders
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: “He is not one of us who does not show mercy to our young ones and respect to our elders.” (Tirmidhi).
Respecting elders is not just about age—it’s about honoring the years of life they have lived, the struggles they have endured, and the wisdom they carry. Even if younger generations may know more about technology or modern knowledge, elders have lessons that no book or seminar can teach—lessons about relationships, patience, marriage, loss, resilience, and what truly matters in life. If we lack humility to listen and learn from them, we deprive ourselves of emotional maturity and deep wisdom.
Parents especially should never be taken for granted—helping them with simple things like fixing a computer or installing a program should be done with gratitude, not annoyance, for they are far ahead of us in life’s journey.
When death comes, as it surely will, what people regret most is not missing out on material things, but broken family ties and words left unsaid. True joy lies in family love and strong relationships, and true regret comes from letting those bonds sour.
We must recognize that stability, love, and the counsel of our elders are among the greatest blessings Allah has placed in our lives.
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