Bad Things Happen

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Why do we need to struggle to explain why bad things happen to good people, to children, to innocent people?

Allah is the Creator of everything. He can do whatever He pleases. He can let bad things happen to anyone.

لَا يُسۡـَٔلُ عَمَّا يَفۡعَلُ وَهُمۡ يُسۡـَٔلُونَ

"He cannot be questioned for His acts, but they will be questioned (for theirs)." Qur'an Al-Anbiya' 21:23

What now? Are we going to stop praying? Are we going to forget Islam? Bad things happen to bad people, to non-Muslims, to atheist too! Bad things are not going to stop happening.

There is wisdom and benefit in every difficulties.

When our child get bullied in school, he will learn from the difficulty and he will be better equipped to deal with people when he grows up. You know this but your child doesn't know. You can try to explain this but he probably won't understand.

We, compare to people who are closer to Allah are like children. They see the wisdom but we don't see the wisdom. As we come closer to Allah, as we have greater and stronger relationship with Allah, there is more wisdom we will see, inshaAllah.

يُؤْتِى ٱلْحِكْمَةَ مَن يَشَآءُ ۚ وَمَن يُؤْتَ ٱلْحِكْمَةَ فَقَدْ أُوتِىَ خَيْرًۭا كَثِيرًۭا ۗ وَمَا يَذَّكَّرُ إِلَّآ أُو۟لُوا۟ ٱلْأَلْبَٰبِ

"He gives wisdom to whoever He wills and whoever He gives wisdom has been given a tremendous good. But none remember (will receive admonition) except men of understanding." Qur'an al-Baqarah 2:269

When bad things happen, we should be reminded of the Power of Allah, put away our pride and humble ourselves to Allah.

May Allah save us from the trials of this life and the next. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Keep asking

BismillahirRahmanirRahim
Assalaamu alaykum

I pray that you are well.

Allah listens to everyone. He knows our needs. He didn't answer our du'as not because He didn't hear us but there is a Divine wisdom behind it that we don't know and sometimes He has answered but we don't see. We impatiently waiting--days, weeks, months. Sometimes we think He has doomed us. But don't feel that way about our Loving Lord. The answer will come when He wills. Keep asking. Each asking is a great worship, an expression of your slavehood to Him. He want you to ask, a way of bringing you close to Him. The fact that you are asking, you are close to Him. Isn't that what you want? To be close to Him? So whether He answered or not, it doesn't matter as long as you get the chance to be with Him, that you still remember Him and go to Him. This might ease you with the waiting or help you see that He has answered you. Listen to the needs of people and become source of happiness to those who need someone to listen to.

And Allah knows best.

May Allah love you. Ameen.

Wassalaam