Saturday, February 7, 2015

Know Your Travel Itinerary To The Next World

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Allah Almighty says,
أَوَلَمْ يَنظُرُ‌وا۟ فِى مَلَكُوتِ ٱلسَّمَـٰوَ‌ٰتِ وَٱلْأَرْ‌ضِ وَمَا خَلَقَ ٱللَّهُ مِن شَىْءٍ وَأَنْ عَسَىٰٓ أَن يَكُونَ قَدِ ٱقْتَرَ‌بَ أَجَلُهُمْ ۖ فَبِأَىِّ حَدِيثٍۭ بَعْدَهُۥ يُؤْمِنُونَ ﴿١٨٥﴾ مَن يُضْلِلِ ٱللَّهُ فَلَا هَادِىَ لَهُۥ ۚ وَيَذَرُ‌هُمْ فِى طُغْيَـٰنِهِمْ يَعْمَهُونَ ﴿١٨٦

Do they not look into the realm of the heavens and the earth and everything that Allah has created and [think] that perhaps their appointed time has come near? So in what statement hereafter will they believe? (185) Whoever Allah sends astray - there is no guide for him. And He leaves them in their transgression, wandering blindly. (186)
[Qur'an, Al-A'raf 7:185]

Death is inevitable. It is the one thing that we can be certain about in life. We should be foremost in learning and understanding death, so we can live our lives accordingly. The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said,
Live in this world as though you are a stranger or a traveler (passing through it).
[Muslim]

We are on a journey and we should know about the whole journey's itinerary, not just one part.

Let us for the next few moments seek an understanding of this, death, the only certainty in life.

We are born to die. Every soul shall have a taste of death no matter who they are. This is confirmed for us many times in the Qur'an:

... كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ ٱلْمَوْتِ ۗ وَإِنَّمَا تُوَفَّوْنَ أُجُورَ‌كُمْ يَوْمَ ٱلْقِيَـٰمَةِ ۖ

Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection...[Qur'an, AleImran 3:185]

كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ ٱلْمَوْتِ ۗ وَنَبْلُوكُم بِٱلشَّرِّ‌ وَٱلْخَيْرِ‌ فِتْنَةً ۖ وَإِلَيْنَا تُرْ‌جَعُونَ ﴿٣٥

Every soul will taste death. And We test you with evil and with good as trial; and to Us you will be returned. (35) [Qur'an, Al-Anbiya' 21:35]

كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ ٱلْمَوْتِ ۖ ثُمَّ إِلَيْنَا تُرْ‌جَعُونَ ﴿٥٧

Every soul will taste death. Then to Us will you be returned. (57) [Qur'an,Al-'Ankabut 29:57]

Death is not pure annihilation, but rather both the living and dead are aware, but there is a difference that can't be compared. Death is merely movement from one world to another. It can be described as a journey through a wormhole to a separate dimension of existence.

We begin this journey in our mother's wombs. 120 days after conception the soul is blown into the fetus.

Narrated 'Abdullah bin Mus'ud that Allah's Messenger (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said,
The matter of the Creation of a human being is put together in the womb of the mother in forty days, and then he becomes a clot of thick blood for a similar period, and then a piece of flesh for a similar period. Then Allah sends an angel who is ordered to write four things. He is ordered to write down his (i.e. the new creature's) deeds, his livelihood, his (date of) death, and whether he will be blessed or wretched (in religion). Then the soul is breathed into him.
[Bukhari]

We have no choice in who our parents are, our race, color or nationality.

هُوَ ٱلَّذِى يُصَوِّرُ‌كُمْ فِى ٱلْأَرْ‌حَامِ كَيْفَ يَشَآءُ ۚ لَآ إِلَـٰهَ إِلَّا هُوَ ٱلْعَزِيزُ ٱلْحَكِيمُ ﴿٦

It is He who forms you in the wombs however He wills. There is no deity except Him, the Exalted in Might, the Wise. (6)
[Qur'an, 3:6]

Allah knows all of this before our birth even, but we still continue our journey to fulfill our destiny.

The next part of our trip begins after we are born. This is the life of this world, in which we now reside and are familiar with. We may stay at this station for a few seconds or as long as 100 years or more. Here we grow up and acquire the means to happiness or misery. We are given the ability to make choices after the age of puberty and we will later be punished or rewarded based upon them.

Allah gives each of us the natural instincts (Fitrah), knowledge of good and bad as well as
right and wrong. The rest is up to us. As the Qur'an says,

وَنَفْسٍ وَمَا سَوَّىٰهَا ﴿٧﴾ فَأَلْهَمَهَا فُجُورَ‌هَا وَتَقْوَىٰهَا ﴿٨﴾ قَدْ أَفْلَحَ مَن زَكَّىٰهَا ﴿٩﴾ وَقَدْ خَابَ مَن دَسَّىٰهَا ﴿١٠

And [by] the soul and He who proportioned it (7) And inspired it [with discernment of] its wickedness and its righteousness, (8) He has succeeded who purifies it, (9) And he has failed who instills it [with corruption]. (10) [Qur'an, 91:7-10]

In this life, the soul and the body are together except during sleep when the soul may leave the body and come back in the morning or Allah may take the soul at that time.

Allah takes the souls at the time of their death, and those that do not die [He takes] during their sleep. Then He keeps those for which He has decreed death and releases the others for a specified term. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. (42) [Qur'an, Az-Zumar 39:42]
(39:42)

Ponder this -- we die each night and Allah gives us another chance at life when we wake up the next day.

We also find continuous biological processes of life and death during this time. In every cell, organ or system of organs, life and death is occurring. There are several hundreds of thousands of enzymatic reactions that take place in the body every fraction of a second. Some of these biochemical reactions are used to synthesize living materials while others are either used to synthesize dead materials or to get rid of living materials.

تُولِجُ ٱلَّيْلَ فِى ٱلنَّهَارِ‌ وَتُولِجُ ٱلنَّهَارَ‌ فِى ٱلَّيْلِ ۖ وَتُخْرِ‌جُ ٱلْحَىَّ مِنَ ٱلْمَيِّتِ وَتُخْرِ‌جُ ٱلْمَيِّتَ مِنَ ٱلْحَىِّ ۖ وَتَرْ‌زُقُ مَن تَشَآءُ بِغَيْرِ‌ حِسَابٍ ﴿٢٧

You cause the night to enter the day, and You cause the day to enter the night; and You bring the living out of the dead, and You bring the dead out of the living. And You give provision to whom You will without account." (27) [Qur'an, AleImran 3:27]

This part of our journey ends as our death begins. No one knows where, how and when he or she will die.

إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عِندَهُۥ عِلْمُ ٱلسَّاعَةِ وَيُنَزِّلُ ٱلْغَيْثَ وَيَعْلَمُ مَا فِى ٱلْأَرْ‌حَامِ ۖ وَمَا تَدْرِ‌ى نَفْسٌ مَّاذَا تَكْسِبُ غَدًا ۖ وَمَا تَدْرِ‌ى نَفْسٌۢ بِأَىِّ أَرْ‌ضٍ تَمُوتُ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّهَ عَلِيمٌ خَبِيرٌ‌ۢ ﴿٣٤

Indeed, Allah [alone] has knowledge of the Hour and sends down the rain and knows what is in the wombs. And no soul perceives what it will earn tomorrow, and no soul perceives in what land it will die. Indeed, Allah is Knowing and Acquainted. (34) [Qur'an, Luqman 31:34]

The One who gave life is the only one who has the right to take life. So, no one has the right to take his or her own life. If they do they will automatically go to Hell.

When someone begins to die the Angel of Death (or Izraeel) comes to take the soul out of the body and puts it in a place called the Barzakh.

قُلْ يَتَوَفَّىٰكُم مَّلَكُ ٱلْمَوْتِ ٱلَّذِى وُكِّلَ بِكُمْ ثُمَّ إِلَىٰ رَ‌بِّكُمْ تُرْ‌جَعُونَ ﴿١١

Say, "The angel of death will take you who has been entrusted with you. Then to your Lord you will be returned." (11) [Qur'an, As-Sajda 32:11]

أَيْنَمَا تَكُونُوا۟ يُدْرِ‌ككُّمُ ٱلْمَوْتُ وَلَوْ كُنتُمْ فِى بُرُ‌وجٍ مُّشَيَّدَةٍ ۗ وَإِن تُصِبْهُمْ حَسَنَةٌ يَقُولُوا۟ هَـٰذِهِۦ مِنْ عِندِ ٱللَّهِ ۖ وَإِن تُصِبْهُمْ سَيِّئَةٌ يَقُولُوا۟ هَـٰذِهِۦ مِنْ عِندِكَ ۚ قُلْ كُلٌّ مِّنْ عِندِ ٱللَّهِ ۖ فَمَالِ هَـٰٓؤُلَآءِ ٱلْقَوْمِ لَا يَكَادُونَ يَفْقَهُونَ حَدِيثًا ﴿٧٨

Wherever you may be, death will overtake you, even if you should be within towers of lofty construction. But if good comes to them, they say, "This is from Allah "; and if evil befalls them, they say, "This is from you." Say, "All [things] are from Allah." So what is [the matter] with those people that they can hardly understand any statement? (78) [Qur'an, 4:78]

For those who led a life of evil, the removal of the soul is tough and difficult. Sometimes, more than one angel has to work together to beat the face and back of the deceased. But for those who lived a good life, the soul yearns to meet his Lord and leaves the body with ease, like a drop of water pouring out. A light like the sun's ray and a sweet fragrance come out to the soul. Then it ascends amid rows of angels, but those who are there cannot see or smell this. The deceased is questioned, punished, beaten, and wails, and cries out. All this happens while they lie dead and their family is around them, but they neither hear nor see it. The sleeper dreams and enjoys their dream or is tormented by it, while someone awake at their side is not able to perceive what is going on at all.

Allah has given inanimate objects awareness and perception by which they glorify their Lord. The stones fall down out of fear of Him. The mountains and trees prostrate. The pebbles, water and plants glorify Him. All this is going on but we are not aware of it.

تُسَبِّحُ لَهُ ٱلسَّمَـٰوَ‌ٰتُ ٱلسَّبْعُ وَٱلْأَرْ‌ضُ وَمَن فِيهِنَّ ۚ وَإِن مِّن شَىْءٍ إِلَّا يُسَبِّحُ بِحَمْدِهِۦ وَلَـٰكِن لَّا تَفْقَهُونَ تَسْبِيحَهُمْ ۗ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ حَلِيمًا غَفُورً‌ۭا ﴿٤٤

The seven heavens and the earth and whatever is in them exalt Him. And there is not a thing except that it exalts [Allah] by His praise, but you do not understand their [way of] exalting. Indeed, He is ever Forbearing and Forgiving. (44) [Qur'an, Al-Isra' 17:44]

The Companions heard the food that was being eaten glorifying Allah. That was because the Companions had a transparency of heart that does not now exist among us. All these things are part of our world and yet we are in complete ignorance of them. It is not too much of an extrapolation to extend this to our being unaware of the things of the Next World.

After the soul is taken, if it is a pure soul and has relatives in the Next World who are people of the Garden, they come to meet the soul with yearning and great joy. They ask it about the condition of those who are still alive and 'suffering' in this world. The angels then bear the soul from one heaven to the next until it comes into the presence of Allah, Then it returns and sees the washing of the body, its shrouding, and the funeral procession. It says either, 'Take me forward! Take me forward!' or 'Where are you taking me?' The living, of course, hear none of this. The soul comes back and stays floating above the body and when the corpse is placed in the grave, the soul inserts itself between the body and the shroud so that the questioning can take place.

Whenever someone died, the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) would stand for awhile at the burial site and then say, "Seek forgiveness for your (Muslim) brother and pray for his steadfastness since he is now being questioned." [Abu Dawud]

The angels pray for the soul of the believer in the heavens just as people pray over the body on earth. The soul hears the receding footfall of the last of the people who followed the funeral and the earth is leveled over them. The earth or even a rock hollowed out and sealed over with lead, would not prevent the two angels, Munkar and Nakir from reaching it.

This is all narrated in the following sound hadith of the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace):

"When the believer is about to depart from this world and go forward into the Next World, angels with faces as bright as the sun descend from the heavens and sit around him in throngs stretching as far as the eye can see. Then the Angel of Death comes and sits at his head and says, "Good soul, come out to forgiveness and pleasure from Allah!" Then his soul emerges like a drop of water flows from a water-skin and the angel takes hold of it. When he has grasped it, the other angels do not leave it in his hand even for the twinkling of an eye. They take it and place it in a perfumed shroud and fragrance issues from it like the sweetest scent of musk found on the face of the earth.'

"Then they bear it upwards and whenever they take it past a company of angels, they ask, 'Who is this good soul?' and the angels with the soul reply, 'So-and-so the son of so-and-so,' using the best names by which people used to call him in this world. They bring him to the lowest heaven and ask for the gate to be opened for him. It is opened for him and angels who are near Allah from each of the heavens accompany him to the subsequent heaven until he reaches to the heaven where Allah the Great is. Allah, the Mighty and Majestic, says, 'Register the book of My slave in 'Illiyun and take him back to earth. I created them from it and I return them to it and I will bring them forth from it again.'

"His soul is then returned to his body and two angels come to him. They make him sit up and say to him, 'Who is your Lord?' He replies, 'My Lord is Allah.' They ask him, 'What is your religion?' He replies, 'My religion is Islam.' They ask him, 'Who is this man who was sent among you?' He replies, 'The Messenger of Allah. Then a Voice from on high declares, 'My slave has spoken the truth, so spread out carpets from the Garden for him and open a gate of the Garden for him!'

"Then some of its fragrance and perfume comes to him, his grave is expanded for him as far as the eye can see, and a man with beautiful garments and a fragrant scent comes to him and says, 'Rejoice in what delights you for this is the day which you were promised.' He asks, 'Who are you? Yours is a face which presages good.' He replies, 'I am your good actions.' Then he says, 'O Lord, let the Last Hour come soon so that I may rejoin my family and my property!'

"When an unbeliever is about to depart from this world and go forward into the Next World, angels with black faces descend from the heavens carrying rough haircloth and sit around him in throngs stretching as far as the eye can see. Then the Angel of Death comes and sits at his head and says, 'Foul soul, come out to the wrath and anger of Allah!' Then his soul divides up in his body and it is dragged out like a skewer is pulled out of wet wool. Then the angel takes hold of it. When he has grasped it, the other angels do not leave it in his hand even for the twinkling of an eye. They take it and wrap it in the rough haircloth and a stench comes out of it like the worst stench of a corpse on the face of the earth.'

"Then they take it up and whenever they take it past a company of angels, they ask, 'Who is this foul soul?' and the angels with the soul reply, 'So-and-so the son of so-and-so,' using the worst names by which people used to call him in this world. They bring him to the lowest heaven and ask for the gate to be opened for him. It does not get opened.'

"The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him and grant him peace) then recited, 'The gates of heaven will not be opened to them nor will they enter the Garden until the camel passes through the eye of the needle.' (7:40) Then Allah the Mighty and Majestic, will say, 'Register his book in Sijjin in the lowest earth.' Then his soul is flung down. The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) then recited, 'Whoever associates anything with Allah, it is as though he has fallen from heaven and the birds snatch him away or the wind sweeps him headlong into a place far away.' (22:31)

"Then his soul is returned to his body and two angels come and say to him, 'Who is your Lord?' He replies, 'Alas, alas, I do not know!' Then a voice calls from on high, 'My slave has lied, so spread out carpets from the Fire for him and open a gate of the Fire for him!' then a hot blast from it comes to him, his grave is made so narrow for him that his ribs are pressed together, and a man with a hideous face and clothing and a foul odor comes to him and says, 'Grieve on account of what has brought you disgrace for this is the day which you were promised.' He asks, 'Who are you? Yours is a face which presages evil.' He replies, 'I am your bad actions.' Then he says, 'O Lord, do not let the Last Hour come!'"

This life in the grave (barzakh) is the next part of our journey. The barzakh is something that separates two things: heaven and earth, this world and the Next World or the period between death and resurrection. The bliss or punishment of the barzakh is not the same as that of the Hereafter, but rather something that happens between the two worlds.

In death, the body remains in the ground while the soul is in the barzakh between the two worlds. However, the two are still connected and so the bliss or punishment happens to both of them. When Allah desires bliss or punishment for the soul, He connects it to the body. This is dependent on the will of Allah and dependent on a person's own actions. The soul is diffused in more than one place at the same time. The proof of this is that the Prophet ((Allah bless him and grant him peace)) saw Prophet Musa (may Allah grant him peace) on the night of the Night Journey standing in prayer in his grave and he also saw him in the sixth and seventh heavens.

During this life in the grave part of our journey the souls are divided into two groups: one group is punished and the other group is in bliss. Usually when we think of the 'grave', it is a word that
inspires fear. We are pained, but not aware of the delight it can contain. Indeed, the bliss of the grave is better than any delight that this world can offer.

وَمَن يُطِعِ ٱللَّهَ وَٱلرَّ‌سُولَ فَأُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ مَعَ ٱلَّذِينَ أَنْعَمَ ٱللَّهُ عَلَيْهِم مِّنَ ٱلنَّبِيِّـۧنَ وَٱلصِّدِّيقِينَ وَٱلشُّهَدَآءِ وَٱلصَّـٰلِحِينَ ۚ وَحَسُنَ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ رَ‌فِيقًا ﴿٦٩

And whoever obeys Allah and the Messenger - those will be with the ones upon whom Allah has bestowed favor of the prophets, the steadfast affirmers of truth, the martyrs and the righteous. And excellent are those as companions. (69) [Qur'an, An-Nisa 4:69]

As the ahaadith narrate, if the soul was a believing one, a door onto the fire is opened and the soul is shown it's place in the Fire had they disobeyed Allah. Then that door is locked and another door onto the Garden is opened and they are shown their place there. This door will remain open until the Day of Rising. Some of the sweetness and fragrance of the Garden reaches them and their grave is made spacious. The believer sleeps in peace just as if they were in one of the meadows of the Garden. Their narrow grave expands and stretches for the soul as far as the eye can see.

This spaciousness, light and greenery in which the believer remains from the time of his death until the Day of Rising is not the same as we know in our world. If a living person were to open a grave, they would not find any expanse, light or greenness there. They would not find an open door through which they could see the Garden. They do not see bliss or torment. It is only the dead person who is aware of these things and sees them. Allah, through His wisdom, has the power to veil this from the living. The proof that this is so is shown by the fact that there are other creatures like the Jinn who live with us on the earth. They converse in raised voices among us but we do not see or hear them. There were angels who fought with the believers (at Badr) and struck down the unbelievers and shouted at them, but the Muslims did not see or hear them. Jibril alayhissalaam came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhissalaam in the midst of the people and they did not see or hear them.

If however the soul was a disbelieving one, a door to the Garden is opened for the unbeliever and they are told to look at what their place would have been in the Garden had they obeyed Allah. Then it is locked and another door is opened and they are told to look at their place in the fire. It stays open and the blast of hot air from it continues to reach them until the Day of Rising. The earth presses in on them and they are crushed to the point that their ribs split apart.

If a righteous person were to be buried in a fiery furnace, their portion of bliss would still reach their soul and body and Allah would make the fire cool and peaceful for them. For the wrongdoer,
the cool air becomes fire and hot wind. The elements and the matter of the universe obey their Lord, Originator and Creator. None of them are able to do anything except what He wills and everything obeys His will in humble submission to His decree.

This part of our journey in our graves is still mostly unknown territory. Outwardly the grave is stillness and quiet while inwardly it contains secrets and terrors which an ordinary person cannot
perceive. It is a strange fact that animals are able to hear the punishment in the grave while human beings as a general rule cannot. The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said, "They are punished and the animals hear it."

Various forms of punishment rain down on a person in the grave according to the type of wrong actions they committed. There are ahaadith of the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) about the Night Journey which contain descriptions of the many types of punishment he saw in the barzakh
between the two worlds.

There are those who are driven like cattle and forced to eat herbage more bitter than aloes and the bitter fruit of Zaqqum and driven on to the hot stones of Jahannam because they did not purify their
property by paying Zakat.

There are those who have to eat foul putrid meat because they fornicated. Some of them have bellies as big as houses and whenever one of them gets up, they are knocked down and say, "O Allah, do not
let the Hour come!" They are in the path of the people of Pharaoh who come and trample them while they can do nothing but scream. These are people who devoured usury.

Some of them are screaming with their mouths gaping open while they devour hot coals which come out of their anuses. These are people who consumed the property of orphans.

Some of them cut pieces from their own sides and eat their own flesh. They are the slanderers and those about whom the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said, "We saw people cutting flesh from their sides and eating it. It was said, "As you used to consume the flesh of your brother!" I asked, "Who are they?" and I was told, "Those of your community who slandered." Some of them have brass nails with which they scratch their faces and chests. They are those who were backbiters and maligned peoples honor.

Part of the hadith of the Night Journey is as follows: "Some people were cracking open their heads with a stone. Every time they did this, their heads were restored to what they were like in the first
place. This went on and on without stopping. I said, "Jibril, who are they?" Jibril replied, "They are the people who turned away from the prayer."

All of this shows that the Punishment of the Grave is true beyond any doubt.

سَابِقُوٓا۟ إِلَىٰ مَغْفِرَ‌ةٍ مِّن رَّ‌بِّكُمْ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرْ‌ضُهَا كَعَرْ‌ضِ ٱلسَّمَآءِ وَٱلْأَرْ‌ضِ أُعِدَّتْ لِلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ وَرُ‌سُلِهِۦ ۚ ذَ‌ٰلِكَ فَضْلُ ٱللَّهِ يُؤْتِيهِ مَن يَشَآءُ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ ذُو ٱلْفَضْلِ ٱلْعَظِيمِ ﴿٢١

Race toward forgiveness from your Lord and a Garden whose width is like the width of the heavens and earth, prepared for those who believed in Allah and His messengers. That is the bounty of Allah which He gives to whom He wills, and Allah is the possessor of great bounty. (21) [Qur'an, Al-Hadid 57:21]

The intelligent are those who protect themselves against the evil of this punishment before it is too late. They know with certainty that sooner or later this day will come and maybe without any warning. When it does, they will leave behind everything and move to another world. Only there will they feel regret, but regret then will not do them any good. In that place, only good actions will be of any use. They alone will be useful currency on that momentus day. Only with them will a person be able to purchase a magnificent mansion in the Garden with all the luxuries and blessings it contains, an everlasting mansion, not one which will disappear as things do in this world. The intelligent person is the one who acts for this world as if they were going to live forever and acts for the Next World as if they were going to die tomorrow.

The Grave is an embrace from which neither believer or unbeliever can escape. Our souls stay in the Barzakh and visit the grave regularly for rewards or punishments. Afterwards, our journey continues and the believer is relieved of its pressure while the unbeliever remains in punishment.

The next part of our journey includes the rebirth from what is left of our bodies, the seed and its embryo, called Ajaf of the sacrum. This method of rebirth of human beings is as simple as the rebirth of a plant from its own seeds. Plants carry seeds that have their genetic traits embedded on chromosomes. The genes on the chromosomes carry everything needed to bring the plant back to its shape, height, variety, chemical composition and other characteristics. In the same way, the embryos of human beings germinate and the new life will start on the Day of Rising.

Allah instructs Angel Israfeel to blow the horn twice. The first is to ready every seed for germination. Water of Life is then poured upon these seeds in their graves. The soul comes back from the barzakh to join its biological entity at this time. The second blow of the trumpet helps those seeds to germinate and produce every person back to normal. They come out of their graves in a state of shock, naked without any clothes or shoes.

وَنُفِخَ فِى ٱلصُّورِ‌ فَصَعِقَ مَن فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَ‌ٰتِ وَمَن فِى ٱلْأَرْ‌ضِ إِلَّا مَن شَآءَ ٱللَّهُ ۖ ثُمَّ نُفِخَ فِيهِ أُخْرَ‌ىٰ فَإِذَا هُمْ قِيَامٌ يَنظُرُ‌ونَ ﴿٦٨

And the Horn will be blown, and whoever is in the heavens and whoever is on the earth will fall dead except whom Allah wills. Then it will be blown again, and at once they will be standing, looking on. (68) [Qur'an, Az-Zumar 39:68]

And the Horn will be blown; and at once from the graves to their Lord they will hasten. (51) They will say, "O woe to us! Who has raised us up from our sleeping place?" [The reply will be], "This is what the Most Merciful had promised, and the messengers told the truth." (52) [Qur'an, Ya-Sin 36:51-52]

Everyone will be raised up with the same identification features down to our very fingerprints.

أَيَحْسَبُ ٱلْإِنسَـٰنُ أَلَّن نَّجْمَعَ عِظَامَهُۥ ﴿٣﴾ بَلَىٰ قَـٰدِرِ‌ينَ عَلَىٰٓ أَن نُّسَوِّىَ بَنَانَهُۥ ﴿٤

Does man think that We will not assemble his bones? (3) Yes. [We are] Able [even] to proportion his fingertips. (4) [Qur'an, Al-Qiyaamah 75:3-4]

After our rebirth our journey continues as each of us is taken to a place of Assembly.

وَتَرَ‌كْنَا بَعْضَهُمْ يَوْمَئِذٍ يَمُوجُ فِى بَعْضٍ ۖ وَنُفِخَ فِى ٱلصُّورِ‌ فَجَمَعْنَـٰهُمْ جَمْعًا ﴿٩٩

And We will leave them that day surging over each other, and [then] the Horn will be blown, and We will assemble them in [one] assembly. (99) [Qur'an, Al-Kahf 18:99]

All will be waiting for the Court of Allah, the Court of Justice to decide for them. The Day of Assembly is a day of fear, agony and anxiety. It is a day when each of us will be worried about what will happen to us personally.

فَإِذَا جَآءَتِ ٱلصَّآخَّةُ ﴿٣٣﴾ يَوْمَ يَفِرُّ‌ ٱلْمَرْ‌ءُ مِنْ أَخِيهِ ﴿٣٤﴾ وَأُمِّهِۦ وَأَبِيهِ ﴿٣٥﴾ وَصَـٰحِبَتِهِۦ وَبَنِيهِ ﴿٣٦﴾ لِكُلِّ ٱمْرِ‌ئٍ مِّنْهُمْ يَوْمَئِذٍ شَأْنٌ يُغْنِيهِ ﴿٣٧

But when there comes the Deafening Blast (33) On the Day a man will flee from his brother (34) And his mother and his father (35) And his wife and his children, (36) For every man, that Day, will be a matter adequate for him. (37) [Qur'an, Abasa 80:33-37]

With the heat of sun, sweating, and presence of too many people next to one another, the situation will be very scary and chaotic.

يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلنَّاسُ ٱتَّقُوا۟ رَ‌بَّكُمْ ۚ إِنَّ زَلْزَلَةَ ٱلسَّاعَةِ شَىْءٌ عَظِيمٌ ﴿١﴾ يَوْمَ تَرَ‌وْنَهَا تَذْهَلُ كُلُّ مُرْ‌ضِعَةٍ عَمَّآ أَرْ‌ضَعَتْ وَتَضَعُ كُلُّ ذَاتِ حَمْلٍ حَمْلَهَا وَتَرَ‌ى ٱلنَّاسَ سُكَـٰرَ‌ىٰ وَمَا هُم بِسُكَـٰرَ‌ىٰ وَلَـٰكِنَّ عَذَابَ ٱللَّهِ شَدِيدٌ ﴿٢

O mankind, fear your Lord. Indeed, the convulsion of the [final] Hour is a terrible thing. (1) On the Day you see it every nursing mother will be distracted from that [child] she was nursing, and every pregnant woman will abort her pregnancy, and you will see the people [appearing] intoxicated while they are not intoxicated; but the punishment of Allah is severe. (2) [Qur'an, Al-Hajj 22:1-2]

On this day seven groups of people will be protected by Allah, these are mentioned in Hadith

"Seven types of people will be under the shelter of mercy on the Day when there will be no shade other than that of Allah's mercy:
1) a just imam (leader),
2) a young person who kept busy in Allah's worship,
3) a person whose heart is attached to the masjid,
4)two people who loved each other for Allah's sake, gathered for His sake and parted, remembering Him,
5) a man who was invited by a beautiful and charming woman but declined her offer, saying "I fear
Allah",
6) a person who gave charity so secretly that their left hand did not know what was given by the right hand , and
7) a person who remembered Allah privately, so that their eyes brimmed with tears.
[Bukhari, Muslim]

Each person shall then be grouped behind his or her leader, prophet, messenger, mentor, celebrity, etc. All will be put in lines waiting for the Court of Allah to take place and our journey to continue.

يَوْمَ نَدْعُوا۟ كُلَّ أُنَاسٍۭ بِإِمَـٰمِهِمْ ۖ فَمَنْ أُوتِىَ كِتَـٰبَهُۥ بِيَمِينِهِۦ فَأُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ يَقْرَ‌ءُونَ كِتَـٰبَهُمْ وَلَا يُظْلَمُونَ فَتِيلًا ﴿٧١﴾ وَمَن كَانَ فِى هَـٰذِهِۦٓ أَعْمَىٰ فَهُوَ فِى ٱلْءَاخِرَ‌ةِ أَعْمَىٰ وَأَضَلُّ سَبِيلًا ﴿٧٢

[Mention, O Muhammad], the Day We will call forth every people with their record [of deeds]. Then whoever is given his record in his right hand - those will read their records, and injustice will not be done to them, [even] as much as a thread [inside the date seed]. (71) And whoever is blind in this [life] will be blind in the Hereafter and more astray in way. (72) [Qur'an, Al-Isra 17:71]

Judgement Day will be our next stop. This is the day when Allah personally will judge everyone directly with absolute justice.

Abu Hurayrah related that the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said:

"Every servant of Allah will remain standing before Allah on the Day of Judgement until he has answered five questions about five things: His life--how he spent it; his knowledge--how much he acted upon it; his wealth--how he acquired it and how he spent it; and his body (and health)--how he used it." [Muslim]

Each person will then receive their book that contains each and every thing they have done from the time of birth till death. This book includes activities, appearance and intention. Such a book could be similar to videotape which records all these three parameters. It is not unfathomable to think about this in a time in which we have all those storage devices which hold encyclopedias full of information.

أَمَّا مَنْ أُوتِىَ كِتَـٰبَهُۥ بِيَمِينِهِۦ ﴿٧﴾ فَسَوْفَ يُحَاسَبُ حِسَابًا يَسِيرً‌ۭا ﴿٨﴾ وَيَنقَلِبُ إِلَىٰٓ أَهْلِهِۦ مَسْرُ‌ورً‌ۭا ﴿٩

Then as for he who is given his record in his right hand, (7) He will be judged with an easy account (8) And return to his people in happiness. (9) [Qur'an, Al-Inshiqaq 84:7-9]

وَأَمَّا مَنْ أُوتِىَ كِتَـٰبَهُۥ بِشِمَالِهِۦ فَيَقُولُ يَـٰلَيْتَنِى لَمْ أُوتَ كِتَـٰبِيَهْ ﴿٢٥﴾ وَلَمْ أَدْرِ‌ مَا حِسَابِيَهْ ﴿٢٦﴾ يَـٰلَيْتَهَا كَانَتِ ٱلْقَاضِيَةَ ﴿٢٧﴾ مَآ أَغْنَىٰ عَنِّى مَالِيَهْ ۜ ﴿٢٨﴾ هَلَكَ عَنِّى سُلْطَـٰنِيَهْ ﴿٢٩﴾ خُذُوهُ فَغُلُّوهُ ﴿٣٠﴾ ثُمَّ ٱلْجَحِيمَ صَلُّوهُ ﴿٣١﴾ ثُمَّ فِى سِلْسِلَةٍ ذَرْ‌عُهَا سَبْعُونَ ذِرَ‌اعًا فَٱسْلُكُوهُ ﴿٣٢﴾ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ لَا يُؤْمِنُ بِٱللَّهِ ٱلْعَظِيمِ ﴿٣٣﴾ وَلَا يَحُضُّ عَلَىٰ طَعَامِ ٱلْمِسْكِينِ ﴿٣٤

But as for he who is given his record in his left hand, he will say, "Oh, I wish I had not been given my record (25) And had not known what is my account. (26) I wish my death had been the decisive one. (27) My wealth has not availed me. (28) Gone from me is my authority." (29) [Allah will say], "Seize him and shackle him. (30) Then into Hellfire drive him. (31) Then into a chain whose length is seventy cubits insert him." (32) Indeed, he did not used to believe in Allah, the Most Great, (33) Nor did he encourage the feeding of the poor. (34) [Qur'an, Al-Haqqa 69:25-34]

Their faces will be in gloom and they will be distressed with fear and anxiety. They will wish and beg to start their life all over again on the earth

Allah will also select a third group of people:

وَٱلسَّـٰبِقُونَ ٱلسَّـٰبِقُونَ ﴿١٠﴾ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ ٱلْمُقَرَّ‌بُونَ ﴿١١﴾ فِى جَنَّـٰتِ ٱلنَّعِيمِ ﴿١٢﴾ ثُلَّةٌ مِّنَ ٱلْأَوَّلِينَ ﴿١٣﴾ وَقَلِيلٌ مِّنَ ٱلْءَاخِرِ‌ينَ ﴿١٤﴾ عَلَىٰ سُرُ‌رٍ‌ۢ مَّوْضُونَةٍ ﴿١٥﴾ مُّتَّكِـِٔينَ عَلَيْهَا مُتَقَـٰبِلِينَ ﴿١٦

And the forerunners, the forerunners - (10) Those are the ones brought near [to Allah] (11) In the Gardens of Pleasure, (12) A [large] company of the former peoples (13) And a few of the later peoples, (14) On thrones woven [with ornament], (15) Reclining on them, facing each other. (16) [Qur'an, Al-Waqi'ah 56:10-16]

This is where we near the end of our journey. We shall enter the everlasting domain, which comprises of the Garden and the Fire. There is no trip after it for it is the Domain of Eternity.

We shall pass over Hellfire, some of us remaining while others continue on.

فَوَرَ‌بِّكَ لَنَحْشُرَ‌نَّهُمْ وَٱلشَّيَـٰطِينَ ثُمَّ لَنُحْضِرَ‌نَّهُمْ حَوْلَ جَهَنَّمَ جِثِيًّا ﴿٦٨﴾ ثُمَّ لَنَنزِعَنَّ مِن كُلِّ شِيعَةٍ أَيُّهُمْ أَشَدُّ عَلَى ٱلرَّ‌حْمَـٰنِ عِتِيًّا ﴿٦٩﴾ ثُمَّ لَنَحْنُ أَعْلَمُ بِٱلَّذِينَ هُمْ أَوْلَىٰ بِهَا صِلِيًّا ﴿٧٠

So by your Lord, We will surely gather them and the devils; then We will bring them to be present around Hell upon their knees. (68) Then We will surely extract from every sect those of them who were worst against the Most Merciful in insolence. (69) Then, surely it is We who are most knowing of those most worthy of burning therein. (70) [Qur'an, Maryam 19:68-70)

The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "The mildest punishment to be inflicted upon
a person in Hell is that he will be made to wear a pair of sandals made of fire which will be so hot that they will make his brain boil like things boil on a stove. He will imagine that no one is
undergoing a punishment more severe although his punishment, in reality, will be the mildest in Hell." [Bukhari, Muslim]

Others who are not qualified to enter Paradise or Hell may be taken to a waiting station called Al- A'raf, to wait until forgiveness is given to them through the Mercy of Allah.

Others will finally end their journey with their life in Paradise. It is the last destination and hope of every person to arrive here. It is reserved for believers who submitted themselves to Allah and followed His teachings. They are the ones whose loyalty and obedience were to Allah. Paradise has all the beauties of life to enjoy without ever being tired. It is a life of excitement, peace and
happiness.

The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said: "Allah, the Almighty, says, 'I have prepared for My righteous servants that which no eyes have ever seen, no ears have ever heard and no heart has ever conceived.'" [Bukhari, Muslim]

This Life After is called the Real and the True Life. The Qur'an explicitly refers to the Life After as the True Life while the life in this world is a superficial one.

وَمَا هَـٰذِهِ ٱلْحَيَو‌ٰةُ ٱلدُّنْيَآ إِلَّا لَهْوٌ وَلَعِبٌ ۚ وَإِنَّ ٱلدَّارَ‌ ٱلْءَاخِرَ‌ةَ لَهِىَ ٱلْحَيَوَانُ ۚ لَوْ كَانُوا۟ يَعْلَمُونَ ﴿٦٤

And this worldly life is not but diversion and amusement. And indeed, the home of the Hereafter - that is the [eternal] life, if only they knew. (64) [Qur'an, Al-Ankabut 29:64]

After completing this journey vicariously here, we should rethink our lives and our deeds as we do them today. We can hide from each other, and ourselves but we cannot hide from Allah. It won't be long before we are pushed along to the next part of our journey. Time passes quickly and is precious. Everything we do now affects our journey at a later stage. Everything is recorded; our deeds, appearances and even hidden intentions. As travelers, we can prepare and change to make our journey and especially our final stop a better one. Perhaps even one small deed or choice we make can save us if we keep conscious.

Among the dreams of the early Muslims is one related by Yazid b Nu'ama who said, "A girl died in the al-Jarib plague. Her father met her in a dream after her death and asked her to tell him about the
Next World. She replied, 'My father, this is a big subject you have raised. We know but cannot act. You can act but do not know. By Allah, one or two acts of glorification and one or two rakats of the
prayer in the book of my actions are preferable to me than the world and all it contains.'"

The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) related in a true dream he had:

"He saw one of the Muslims. The Angel of Death came to take his soul but his correct behavior towards his parents came and drove the Angel of Death away from him.'

"He saw another of the Muslims surrounded by shaytans. Then his remembrance of Allah came and made the shaytans fly from him.'

"Then he saw a third Muslim surrounded by the angels of punishment. His prayer came and rescued him from their hands.'

"The tongue of a fourth Muslim was lolling out from thirst and whenever he approached a pool of water, he was stopped and driven away. Then his fasting of Ramadan came and gave him water to drink.'

"He saw another man and the Prophets sitting in circles. Every time the Muslim approached one of the circles, he was stopped and driven away. His ghusl for janaba came, took hold of his hand, and sat him down in the circle.'

"Another Muslim had darkness in front of him, behind him, on his right, on his left and above him. He was completely lost in it. Then his hajj and umra came and led him out of the darkness into the
light.'

"Another Muslim was being pursued by flames and sparks of fire. His sadaqa (charity( formed a veil between him and the fire and shaded his head.'

"Another Muslim was speaking to a group of believers who would not speak to him. His upholding of kinship came and told the group of believers that he had maintained ties of kinship and ordered them to speak to him. Then the believers spoke to him and shook hands with him.'

"Another Muslim was surrounded by the Zabaniyya (angels of Jahannam). His commanding the right and forbidding the wrong came and rescued him from them and put him among the angels of mercy.'

"Another Muslim was kneeling with a veil between him and Allah. His good character came, took his hand and Allah let him enter His presence.'

"Another Muslim had received his book in his left hand. His fear of Allah came and took his book and placed it in his right hand.'

"The scales of another Muslim were light in the balance. Those of his children who had died young came and made the scales level.'

"Another Muslim was standing on the brink of Jahannam. His hope in Allah came and rescued him from it, and he withdrew from it.'

"Another Muslim had fallen into the fire. The tears that he had wept out of fear from Allah came and rescued him from it.'

"Another Muslim was standing on the Sirat (Bridge over Hell) trembling like a leaf in a strong wind. His good opinion of Allah came and his terror was allayed and he was able to go on.'

"Another Muslim was crawling on the Sirat, sometimes creeping, and sometimes just clinging on. His prayer came and put him on his feet and rescued him.'

"Another Muslim reached the gates of the Garden but they were locked against him. His testimony that there is no god but Allah came and opened the gates for him and let him into the garden."

Let us pray that Allah make us among those who work and have an easy trip and have as the end to their journey, the final abode of Paradise.

O Allah, We seek refuge with You from the punishment of the grave. O Allah, help us to live and die as Muslims and help us to understand the true object of this life. O Allah, grant us good in this life and good in the life to come, and save us from the torment of the Hellfire.

سَمِعْنَا وَأَطَعْنَا ۖ غُفْرَ‌انَكَ رَ‌بَّنَا وَإِلَيْكَ ٱلْمَصِيرُ‌ ...

We hear and we obey. [We seek] Your forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the [final] destination.[Qur'an, Al-Baqarah 2:285]

كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَآئِقَةُ ٱلْمَوْتِ ۗ وَإِنَّمَا تُوَفَّوْنَ أُجُورَ‌كُمْ يَوْمَ ٱلْقِيَـٰمَةِ ۖ فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ ٱلنَّارِ‌ وَأُدْخِلَ ٱلْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ ۗ وَمَا ٱلْحَيَو‌ٰةُ ٱلدُّنْيَآ إِلَّا مَتَـٰعُ ٱلْغُرُ‌ورِ‌ ﴿١٨٥

Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion. (185) [Qur'an, AleImran 3:185]

Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wassallam.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Friday, February 6, 2015

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Deserts are Expanding

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.


The landscape of the desert can be quite picturesque but do you know that many deserts are expanding at a rapid rate, faster than many people realized. Already one third of the world is considered desert.


The Sahara desert in Northern Africa has spread South over 250,000 square miles in the past 50 years. As it is, the Sahara is the largest desert in the world at 3.5 million square miles, larger than the continental United States.


The Gobi desert in China has expanded every decade since the 1950s. In a 5 year period ('94-'99) the Gobi desert expanded over 20,000 square miles. In 5 years that's an area larger than New Jersey and Massachusetts combined. More importantly, the desert is about 150 miles from Beijing and still expanding.

Allah Almighty says,
وَإِنَّا لَجَـٰعِلُونَ مَا عَلَيْهَا صَعِيدًا جُرُ‌زًا ﴿٨

And indeed, We will make that which is upon it [into] a barren ground. (8)
[Qur'an, Al-Kahf 18:8]

Are the deserts not a great reminder that everything on earth will turn to dust? If you know something of this world is going to turn into dust, would you give it any value? So, are you still running after the things of this earth and clinging to it and forget about your Hereafter?

May Allah grant us wisdom and take us out of heedlessness into a wakeful state. Ameen.

Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wassallam

Please don't forget us in our night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam



Wednesday, February 4, 2015

Setting Our Priorities Right

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate

Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

The Companions of the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) were the best generation of this Ummah. They were keen to compete in offering all good deeds and they were very keen students of the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant peace). They were in the habit of asking the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) about everything which relates to the religion. They realized that Islam is a complete way of life, which requires them to modify or amend, or totally change their practices, so that they are in line with what Allah requires of them and what pleases Him. Therefore, they went to the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) asking him about anything on which they did not have clear guidance. At times, they put their questions in general terms in order to establish a certain principle or a definite list of priorities.

Abdullah ibn Mas'ud, a companion of the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) who achieved great renown as one of the leading scholars among the companions of the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace), reports that he asked the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) once: “Which action is most pleasing to Allah?” He answered: “To pray on time.” I asked: “What comes next?” He answered: “Then comes kindness to one’s parents.” I said: “What comes next?” He said: “Next comes jihad for Allah’s cause.” [Related by Al-Bukhari, Muslim and others.]

We note that the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) mentions first a pure act of worship (prayer) which falls in the area of personal relationship with Allah as the act most pleasing to Him. He follows that with an action, which falls in a very narrow section of social relations, i.e. family relations. He places both actions above the one, which has more to do with public life and with the common welfare of the Muslim community. If we think about it, the two first actions require much less effort and sacrifice than the third one.

This Hadith reveals that the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) had a keen insight into what motivates people to work and to sacrifice. We know that prayer is the most important duty imposed by Islam. The first thing that we will be asked in the Day of Judgment is our prayers.

Prayers do not impose a very heavy burden on the individual. It is an easy and pleasant duty, which makes a person constantly aware of what Allah requires of him and keeps him on his guard against falling in sin. It is only natural that the fulfillment of the top and most frequent duty should earn the greatest reward from Allah. What the Hadith tells us is that prayer must be offered on time in order to earn that great reward and be most pleasing to Allah. In other words, punctuality is of essence for prayers to be so highly rewarded. Praying on time, no doubt, is teaching us to be punctual in all our daily affairs -- appointments and getting worldly things done on time, no procrastination. Punctuality is a quality that is becoming extinct in today's world even in Muslim societies. Next time you delay your prayers, remember, procrastination is one of the shaytan entrances to destroy you. Don't say, "I will pray when I am done with such and such" or "I'll pray at home." etc. Remember, you might not live even till the next breath.

Kindness to parents is placed second in importance. There is no doubt that our parents have the greatest claim on our love and kind treatment. Nothing that we may do for them in their old age, when they grow weaker and more dependent on us, compensates them for the kindness and love they show us when we were young and totally dependent on them. We need only look at any child being cared for by his mother in order to appreciate how great the sacrifice of the mother is and how little the child can offer in return. People may not argue about the claim of parents on their children’s kindness, a duty that earns reward from Allah. Allah rewards us for our good actions although we may do them only by way of duty. But the emphasis placed by Islam on this kindness to parents is due to two different considerations.

First, it is easy for a child just reaching adulthood to be preoccupied with its own affairs, looking after its own interests, and to be proud of strength, tough position, etc. It is very easy for such a person to be negligent in his duty toward his parents. Some people find it very difficult to part with their money, even when they have to pay it to their own parents. They may have more than enough for their own needs, and their parents may be poor, but nevertheless they find it extremely difficult to help their parents financially. It is not uncommon to hear about cases of unkind treatment of parents. Hence, the reminder is needed and the Prophet, peace be upon him, reminds us in the most effective of ways.

Secondly, with such a great claim on their kindness and love, which our parents posses, if we do neglect our duty, we are bound to neglect other duties which our religion imposes on us. We will definitely be less inclined to be kind to others who are not related to us. We will be hesitant to extend our help and support to those who need it and have no immediate claim on us. Such an attitude is totally alien to Islamic behavior. Hence, the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) stresses this duty. He says in another Hadith reported by Al-Bukhari on the authority of Abdullah ibn Omar: “Allah’s pleasure is dependent on the pleasure of parents, and His displeasure is caused by the displeasure of parents with their child.” In this Hadith the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) shows that the surest way to earn Allah’s pleasure is to be kind to one’s parents. If one is unkind to them to the extent that their love is replaced by displeasure, anger or bitterness, then this is the surest way to earn Allah’s displeasure. There can be no gloomier prospect than this.

Next important action is jihad for Allah's cause. Jihad requires a person to recognize the fact that Allah's words are paramount, accept it and hold firmly to it, and to convey it to others. In order to do this; a person may have to sacrifice his wealth and his life. Jihad means to accept these risks willingly. Although most people understand the term to mean fighting the enemies of Islam in order that Islam may achieve supremacy over all other philosophies and creeds, its significance is much wider than its erroneous translation as “holy war”. Every action which serves the purpose of establishing Islam firm in his heart and conveying it to others, including an information campaign, is part of jihad. It earns great reward from Allah. Since jihad requires a positive effort, which involves sacrifice of one’s time, money or life, it tends to overshadow other virtuous actions, which bring us reward from Allah as well.

Abdullah ibn Amr reported: A man came to the Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) asking permission to strive in jihad. The Prophet (Allah bless him and grant him peace) said, “Are your parents alive?” He said yes. The Prophet said, “Then strive in their service.”

May Allah grant us sound understanding of His religion and enable us to worship Him with excellence. Ameen.

Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wassallam

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Advice for Children: Be Nice to Your Parents and Don't Participate in the Global Epidemic of Disrespecting Parents

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wassallam, told us that one of the signs of the end of time is that there would be much disrespect from children to their parents. This is very common nowadays and has become a global epidemic.

Many children don't realize that respecting their parents is an obligation upon them in the religion. Children raising their voices to their parents and children physically mistreating their parents have become apparent in many societies. Many don't even think that disrespecting or mistreating their parents is one of the worst sins that a person can gather for themselves, and they will be punished in this world before the next.

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
"Shall I tell you of the worst major sins? Worshiping others with Allah, showing disrespect to parents, giving a false statement, and testifying to the truth of a falsehood. " And he kept repeating it until we were telling ourselves (out of sympathy for him because of the strain of repeating it), "If only he would be silent.”
[Bukhari, Muslim, Tirmidhi]

A story was told, a true story happened in our time, that a man had bought an apartment from a Muslim man in a Muslim country. When he went to the apartment, there was an old woman in the apartment and he then learned that she was the mother of the Seller. He went back to the Seller and told him about his mother and the Seller said, "I sold you the house and my mother." The buyer gladly took the deal and took care of the old woman until she died 40 days later.

Don't think that you only nice to your parents because they are nice to you. Even if your parents are not fulfilling their obligations as parents, you still must fulfill their rights as parents.

It is reported that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, has said,

"Whoever comes into the morning and both his parents are pleased with him, he comes into the morning with two doors of Paradise open to him. Whoever goes into the evening and both parents are pleased with him, he goes into the evening with two doors of Paradise open for him. And if he has just one parent, then one door of Paradise is open to him. Whoever comes into the morning and both his parents are angry with him, he comes into the morning with 2 doors of hellfire open to him. Whoever goes into the evening with both parents are angry with him, he goes into the evening with 2 doors of hellfire open to him. And if he has just one parent, then one door is open for him."

After realizing this huge position of parents that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, was telling the companions about, one of the Companions asked, "Even if the parents were oppressive to them?" The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, replied, "Even if they oppress the child, even if they oppress the child, even if they oppress the child."

Always, always, always, speak to your parents in a soft, gentle and noble manner as described in the Qur'an

وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا ﴿٢٣﴾ وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا ﴿٢٤

And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word. (23) And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, "My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small."
[Qur'an Al-Isra' 17:23-34]

Children should lower the wings of humility to their parents, whether it is giving them advice/nasiha or enjoining righteousness and forbidding evil. You cannot use force and harshness in teaching or advising your parents. If your parents don't like it and angered by it, leave it. It is one of the worst sins to make your parents angry.

Do not raise your voice over your parents. Stay calm. If you yell a lot, raise your voices, and are argumentative, they will get more excited. No matter how much you think you're right, usually your parent is right. Realize this, you are only a child, they have much more experience than you, and they are probably doing it to protect you. But it's hard to realize this when you are arguing with your parents. Write this on your hand or wrist: "Work before play, theirs before mine, they know best." This will usually help you remember to do what they say.

Don't use bad language. Most people don't think bad language is cool, so do your parents. People who use bad language make them look stupid--your parents don't want you to look stupid.

Think before you speak. This means before you tell your mom/dad that they're stupid, or don't know what they are talking about, think about that. Do you know how to do half the things your parents know how to do? Like change oil in a car, or balance a checkbook, or file taxes, or all those grown up things? Probably not. So before you speak something rude, make sure you know what you're getting into.

Accept consequences. If your parents tell you to go to your room or take away your privileges because you talked back, accept it, don't argue, because chances are, you're wrong, and they're right. It's sad to say, but it's true. They are just trying to teach you skills you need to grow up.

Listen. You need to listen, listen, listen. Instead of throwing a tantrum, listen to what they have to say, and don't be stubborn to accept it. Think about it.

Honor your parents. Don't lie to them, and don't do any sneaky stuff, because they know what you're doing anyway, there's no way around it. Help them build a wall of trust for you, but when you get it, don't let it fall down again.

Be grateful to your parents. If you are not grateful to your parents means you are not grateful to Allah for choosing your parents for you. Part of being grateful to your parents is to make a habit to make this du'a mentioned in the Qur'an for your parents after each prescribed daily prayer.
رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

"My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small."

Your parents have raised you or is raising you whether you consider they have done a good job or not. That is up to their Lord to judge. But don't think it has been a breeze for them. Taking care of anybody requires a lot of patience and mercy. When you were just born, your mother could have flushed you down the toilet or bundle you up and leave you at the doorstep of an orphanage or give you away for adoption. But she didn't do any of that but went through many sleepless nights caring for you. And here you are, safe and sound. Learn the du'a above and make this du'a for them. When you make this du'a, some scholars said that you are also asking Allah to put in your heart mercy that you will be able to take care of them just as they were able to take care of you. Even if your parents didn't raise you, there is no harm for you to make this du'a.

Disrespecting your parents is a high matter indeed. If you hope for success in this life and the next, you should be nice to your parents. Listen to them and make them feel good. Don't make them angry, worried or sad because of you. Get along with your siblings and choose your friends wisely.

If you remember this Golden Rule, "Do as you would like to be done to you," you won't go wrong with your parents.

You can expect all kinds of good will come in your life if you are kind to your parents. The opposite is true if you are bad to your parents. What goes around comes around.

Allah Almighty says,
هَلْ جَزَآءُ ٱلْإِحْسَـٰنِ إِلَّا ٱلْإِحْسَـٰنُ ﴿٦٠﴾ فَبِأَىِّ ءَالَآءِ رَ‌بِّكُمَا تُكَذِّبَانِ ﴿٦١

Is the reward for good [anything] but good? (60) So which of the favors of your Lord would you deny? (61)
[Qur'an, Ar-Rahman 55:60-61]

May Allah help us raise our children well and grant them good character and righteousness. Ameen.

Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wassallam.

Please include us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Monday, February 2, 2015

Du'a of a Mother

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate

Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Salim ibn Ayyub was an eminent scholar of his time. His childhood was spent in Ray', where he learned how to recite the Qur'an under the guidance of scholars. He narrates: A scholar once asked me to recite the Qur'an and after much effort, I could not even recite Sarah Fatihah. It was almost as though my tongue was tied. The scholar then asked me, "Is your mother still alive?" "Yes," I replied. He advised, "Request her to make du'a' for you. Allah will grant you true knowledge and the ability to recite the Qur'an easily." I accepted his suggestion, and requested my mother to make du`a' for me. She complied with my request. When I grew up, I desired to learn Arabic and proceeded to Baghdad, where I studied for some time. I then returned to Ray. I had just completed inscribing a copy of Mukhtsar Al-Muzani and was double-checking it with a friend, when the scholar, who had advised me to request du'as from my mother, entered. He greeted us, but did not recognize me. He sat and listened to our discourse, but could not understand anything. In amazement, he asked, "Where have you learned all of this from?" I wanted to advise him to request his mother to make du'a' for him, but out of shyness, I refrained.

Salim ibn Ayyub taught and compiled many works in the field of jurisprudence, as well as a famous book of Tafsir. Many benefited from his knowledge. Ibn Subki says, "He was an exceptional scholar and none could surpass him. He became such an illustrious scholar, that only those erudite scholars, who were thoroughly grounded in knowledge and worship, could match him."'

Incidents of this nature strengthen the Iman (faith) of a believer in the greatness of Allah and the truth of Islam.

Fortunate are those who still have their parents and seek the pleasure of their parents and receive their du'as.

Mothers, why do we doubt that Allah will answer your du'as for your children?

Children, why do you feel difficult in understanding certain knowledge or memorizing Qur'an or doing certain good deed while your mother is beside you? Request her to make du'a for you.

May Allah enable our children to seek our pleasure while we are still alive and make them qurrata a'yun to us and the Ummah.

رَ‌بَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَ‌ٰجِنَا وَذُرِّ‌يَّـٰتِنَا قُرَّ‌ةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَٱجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous. [Qur'an, Al-Furqan 25:74]

Ameen.

Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wassallam.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.