Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- We Reap What We Sow

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate

How often is it that a farmer plants wheat and it comes out as a sunflower? You may say, never! For how can someone farm the seed of one plant and expect some other plant to grow. It just does not happen. Similarly, some parents leave their children waddling in the mud of television, music, movies, wifi/internet, social media, computer games, and bad company. Then when the child reaches high school and asks to go to a high school prom with a girlfriend or a boyfriend, or when he enters University and stops praying, or when he gets married to a disbeliever and himself becomes one, then the parents say, “What happened?”

It is the harvest of what we planted. If we do not raise our children to be obedient, where do we expect them to learn? If we do not practice Islam ourselves, and disobedient to Allah, who will be our children’s example? How do you teach a child to wake up for Tahjjud, for Fajr, when he sees his own father and mother sleeping in, day after day? You may ask, how do I raise my children to be good Muslims, obedient to their parents? Consider the following:

Firstly, one should discipline their children from small and throughout their youth. Hisham ibn Abd Al-Malik missed a son of his during Jumu’ah one week. When he met him later, he asked him, “Why did you miss Jumu’ah?” He son replied, “My donkey couldn’t make the trip.” His father then said, “Couldn’t you have walked!” For an entire year after that, Hisham ibn Abd Al-Malik made his son walk to Jumu’ah.

Secondly, the he piety of the father and mother reaches the children. In the Qur’an, Allah recalls for us the story of Musa and Khidr (peace be upon them), and how Khidr rebuilt a wall for two orphans:

وَأَمَّا الْجِدَارُ‌ فَكَانَ لِغُلَامَيْنِ يَتِيمَيْنِ فِي الْمَدِينَةِ وَكَانَ تَحْتَهُ كَنزٌ لَّهُمَا وَكَانَ أَبُوهُمَا صَالِحًا فَأَرَ‌ادَ رَ‌بُّكَ أَن يَبْلُغَا أَشُدَّهُمَا وَيَسْتَخْرِ‌جَا كَنزَهُمَا رَ‌حْمَةً مِّن رَّ‌بِّكَ ۚ وَمَا فَعَلْتُهُ عَنْ أَمْرِ‌ي ۚ ذَٰلِكَ تَأْوِيلُ مَا لَمْ تَسْطِع عَّلَيْهِ صَبْرً‌ا ﴿٨٢

And as for the wall, it belonged to two orphan boys in the city, and there was beneath it a treasure for them, and their father had been righteous. So your Lord intended that they reach maturity and extract their treasure, as a mercy from your Lord. And I did it not of my own accord. That is the interpretation of that about which you could not have patience." (82) [Qur'an - Al-Kahf 18:82]

Look at how Allah protected these orphans because of the righteousness of their father. In a tafseer, it is said that it was their grandfather seven generations back! Sa’eed ibn Jubayr said, “I often lengthen my Salah for the sake of my son, perhaps Allah may protect him (because of it).”

We reap what we sow.

May Allah grant us righteousness and make us good examples for our children. Ameen.

Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wasallam.

And Allah knows best and is Most Wise, and He alone grants success, and to Him is the final return of all.

Wassalaam