When you get married, you can't stay up all night and pray and read Quran because you have to take care of your spouse/children. When you get married you might have to quit school because you have to take care of your spouse/children.
People want to avoid fitnah but marriage is one of the biggest trials in this life and big trials come with big rewards. Scholars who see marriage as better than not get married, will recommend marriage, and scholars who see marriage as not good for him will not recommend marriage. If marriage is better for you, then go get married. If not, don't get married. Definitely don't get married because the culture expects you to get married.
رَبَّنَآ ءَاتِنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً وَهَيِّئْ لَنَا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا رَشَدًا
Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance. [Quran, al Kahf 18:10]
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