When your children were young, they crave for your attention. But you pushed them away because you were busy with your work. When your children are older now, you crave for their attention. But how can you get their attention when they have learned to give attention elsewhere other than you.
Parents, don't fall into the mistake of believing that your work need more attention than your children. Spend time with your children from day 1. Put aside your work immediately when they come to you. Pray and eat together at least once a day. The family that pray and eat together stay together.
يَٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ قُوٓا۟ أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا وَقُودُهَا ٱلنَّاسُ وَٱلْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَٰٓئِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌ شِدَادٌ لَّا يَعْصُونَ ٱللَّهَ مَآ أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ ﴿٦﴾
O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded. [Quran, at-Tahrim 66:6]
https://tanzil.net/#66:6
May Allah make us good parents and make our children comfort to our eyes. Aameen.
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