Saturday, December 21, 2024

Attracting Allah's Blessings

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Attracting Allah's blessings involves aligning your life with His guidance and striving to embody the values and actions He loves. Here are practical ways to invite Allah’s blessings into your life:

1. Strengthen Your Relationship with Allah

  • Salah (Prayer): Perform your five daily prayers on time and with khushu’ (humility and focus).

  • Du’a (Supplication): Regularly ask Allah for His blessings and guidance. Be sincere and consistent in your du’as.

  • Dhikr (Remembrance): Engage in regular remembrance of Allah, such as reading the Quran, engaging in salawat, and saying SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar, and La ilaha illallah.

2. Be Grateful

  • Express gratitude for Allah’s blessings, big and small. Allah Almighty says:

وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ ۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِى لَشَدِيدٌ 

"And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.' " (Quran, Ibrahim 14:7)

  • Show gratitude through your actions, like sharing wealth, helping others, and using your blessings to please Allah.

3. Fulfill Your Obligations

  • Pay Zakat: Fulfill your obligation to give zakat and give charity (sadaqah) regularly, as it purifies wealth and brings barakah (blessings).
  • Obey Allah and His Messenger: Strive to live according to the Quran and Sunnah.

4. Seek Knowledge

  • Learn about Islam and implement its teachings in your life. Pursuing beneficial knowledge is a path to Allah’s pleasure and blessings. The Prophet Muhammad () said:

    "Indeed, Allah, His angels, the inhabitants of the heavens and the earth, even the ant in its hole and the fish, pray for the one who teaches people good." (Sunan al-Tirmidhi)

    This hadith highlights the importance of scholars and educators in Islam who share beneficial knowledge, as they contribute to the guidance and betterment of humanity. The hadith emphasizes the virtue and high status of those who seek and teach beneficial knowledge in Islam.

    A version of this hadith is narrated by Abu Umamah al-Bahili (may Allah be pleased with him), where the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

    "Indeed, Allah, His angels, the inhabitants of the heavens and the earth, even the ant in its hole and the fish, pray for the one who teaches people good." (Sunan al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 2685)

    Explanation:
  1. Scholars' Role: This hadith highlights the importance of scholars and educators in Islam who share beneficial knowledge, as they contribute to the guidance and betterment of humanity.
  2. Universality of Du'a: The inclusion of creatures like ants and fish shows the widespread impact of good knowledge on all of creation, directly or indirectly.
  3. Encouragement for Learning and Teaching: It encourages Muslims to pursue knowledge and spread it to benefit others, as this act brings blessings from Allah and even the creation.

    May Allah bless the efforts of scholars and those who seek and teach knowledge with sincerity.

5. Be Kind and Just to Others

  • Treat people with kindness, respect, and fairness. Upholding good character attracts Allah’s blessings.
  • Maintain family ties and support your parents, as their du'a (supplication) can bring immense blessings.

6. Give Charity

  • The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

    “Charity does not decrease wealth.” (Muslim)

    Sadaqah not only benefits others but also invites barakah in your wealth and life.

7. Practice Patience and Contentment

  • Accept Allah’s decree with patience and remain content in both good times and trials. This attitude pleases Allah and brings His blessings.

8. Repent and Seek Forgiveness

  • Frequently ask for forgiveness through istighfar. Allah loves those who repent and promises to shower them with blessings.

    فَقُلْتُ ٱسْتَغْفِرُوا۟ رَبَّكُمْ إِنَّهُۥ كَانَ غَفَّارًا  يُرْسِلِ ٱلسَّمَآءَ عَلَيْكُم مِّدْرَارًا

    “Ask forgiveness from your Lord. Verily, He is Oft-Forgiving; He will send [rain] to you in abundance.” (Quran, Nuh 71:10-11)

9. Follow the Sunnah

  • Emulating the Prophet Muhammad’s (peace and blessings be upon him) way of life brings blessings into all aspects of life, including family, work, and worship.

10. Spread Goodness

  • Encourage what is good and forbid what is wrong. Supporting others in righteousness brings blessings to both individuals and communities.

11. Cultivate Sincerity (Ikhlas)

  • Perform every action for the sake of Allah, seeking His pleasure alone. Sincerity amplifies the reward and blessings of every deed.

12. Avoid Haram (Prohibited Actions)

  • Stay away from sins, dishonesty, and actions that displease Allah. Halal earnings, food, and lifestyle are essential for attracting blessings.

13. Show Compassion and Care

  • The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:

    “Allah will not be merciful to those who are not merciful to people.” (Bukhari)

    Showing mercy to others invokes Allah’s mercy and blessings.

By consistently practicing these actions with sincerity and dedication, you can draw closer to Allah and attract His countless blessings in this world and the Hereafter.

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Friday, December 20, 2024

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Reflect on the Quran

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Reflect on the Quran

“[All] praise is [due] to Allah, who has sent down upon His Servant the Book and has not made therein any deviance.” (Quran, Al-Kahf 18:1)

This Surah begins with gratitude and reverence to Allah, acknowledging His infinite wisdom and mercy. The praise is directed to Allah for the revelation of the Quran, described as a flawless and upright Book, free from any error, inconsistency, or distortion. 

The term "His Servant" honors the Prophet (ﷺ) as the chosen messenger through whom this divine guidance was delivered. By emphasizing the Quran's lack of deviance, the ayah assures us of its purity, reliability, and alignment with truth, guiding humanity on the straight path. 

This introduction sets the tone for reflection and adherence to the teachings within the Quran, as it is a source of clarity and righteousness.

Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance. Aameen.

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Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Lying is Harmful

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Lying harms others in several significant ways, both emotionally and practically. Here are some of the key impacts:

1. Erosion of Trust

  • Trust is foundational to any relationship, whether personal, professional, or social. When someone lies, it undermines trust, making it difficult for others to rely on or believe them in the future. The loss of trust can damage relationships, sometimes irreparably.

2. Emotional Hurt

  • Lies can cause emotional pain, especially when the truth eventually surfaces. The person who was lied to may feel betrayed, deceived, or humiliated, which can lead to feelings of anger, sadness, or resentment.

3. Harmful Decisions

  • Lies often distort reality, leading others to make decisions based on false information. These misguided decisions can have serious consequences, such as financial loss, professional setbacks, or harm to one's health or well-being.

4. Damage to Reputation

  • Lies about others (e.g., gossip, slander, or false accusations) can tarnish their reputation, affecting their personal and professional lives. Rebuilding a damaged reputation can be extremely difficult and time-consuming.

5. Conflict and Division

  • Lies can create misunderstandings and conflicts between individuals or groups. For instance, dishonesty can lead to unnecessary arguments, breakups, or even long-standing enmity.

6. Undermining Cooperation

  • In communities or workplaces, lying can disrupt collaboration and teamwork. When people suspect dishonesty, they may become less willing to share ideas, resources, or trust their colleagues.

7. Legal and Financial Consequences

  • Lies can lead to legal repercussions for others, especially in cases involving false testimonies, fraudulent activities, or breach of contracts. Victims of such lies may face fines, lawsuits, or other financial burdens.

8. Damage to Mental Health

  • Being lied to can leave individuals feeling manipulated, powerless, or paranoid, potentially impacting their mental health. They may develop anxiety or struggle to trust others in the future.

9. Broken Promises

  • Lies in the form of broken promises can deeply hurt individuals who were counting on the liar’s commitment. This can lead to disappointment, frustration, and a sense of betrayal.

10. Negative Ripple Effects

  • Lies often have a domino effect. For example, a single falsehood can lead to further lies, more people being misled, and broader consequences for families, organizations, or communities.

Islamic Perspective on Lying

In Islam, lying is considered a grave sin because of the harm it causes. The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) warned against lying, saying, “Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise... and lying leads to wickedness, and wickedness leads to Hellfire” (Sahih al-Bukhari, Sahih Muslim).

The emphasis on truthfulness in Islam highlights its importance for maintaining justice, trust, and harmony in society.

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Don't Lie

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
Don't Lie

Lying is among the most despicable acts a person can commit with their tongue. The Prophet (ﷺ) gave us a clear warning about it: 

"Truthfulness leads to righteousness, and righteousness leads to Paradise. A man keeps on telling the truth until he becomes a truthful person. Falsehood leads to wickedness, and wickedness leads to the Hellfire. A man may keep telling lies until he is written as a liar before Allah." (Bukhari & Muslim)

The tongue is a powerful tool that can build trust or destroy relationships. When you lie, you're not just hurting others but also corroding your soul and reputation. 

Lies break trust, cause emotional pain, and distort reality. This can lead to bad decisions, ruined relationships, and unnecessary drama. 

Lies damage reputations, create conflicts, and make it hard for people to work together in communities or workplaces. 

Lies may also result in legal and financial consequences, negatively impact mental health, and lead to broken promises, leaving people feeling betrayed and manipulated. 

The ripple effects of dishonesty can harm families, organizations, and societies.

Lying is a grave sin because it destroys justice and harmony. The Prophet (ﷺ) reminded us that truthfulness is the way to righteousness and ultimately, Paradise. 

So, as believers, we’ve got to be careful with our words and stick to the truth no matter what.

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Guard Your Tongue: Speak Only What Pleases Allah

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Guard Your Tongue: Speak Only What Pleases Allah

Have you ever wondered why you can talk for hours without feeling tired yet struggle to exercise for just 20 minutes? 

The tongue was created with incredible endurance, designed to engage in the dhikr (remembrance) of Allah effortlessly and without limits. 

Unfortunately, instead of using this gift to glorify Allah, we often misuse it for gossip, backbiting, slander, and complaining.

Scholars have emphasized that you cannot establish a true connection with Allah unless you purify your speech and refrain from speaking ill of others.

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: "A servant may utter a word that pleases Allah without giving it much thought, yet Allah raises their rank because of it. Another person may utter a word that angers Allah without considering its significance, and because of it, they fall into Hellfire."  (Sahih al-Bukhari)

This powerful reminder shows us that our words have weight. Choose them wisely, and use your tongue to earn Allah’s pleasure, not His displeasure.

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Tuesday, December 17, 2024

Aligning Actions with Shari'ah and Maqasid

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Aligning Actions with Shari'ah and Maqasid

When we want to undertake any action or decision, it is important not only to consider the shari'ah (specific rulings and laws) but also to reflect on the maqasid al-shari'ah (higher objectives of Islamic law). This ensures that our actions align with the overarching purposes and wisdom behind the laws, which are:

1. Preservation of Religion (Deen): Ensuring that the action does not compromise our faith or the ability of others to practice Islam.
2. Preservation of Life (Nafs): Ensuring the safety, well-being, and dignity of individuals.
3. Preservation of Intellect ('Aql): Avoiding anything that harms or diminishes rational thought or knowledge.
4. Preservation of Lineage/Family (Nasl): Protecting the sanctity of family and social structures.
5. Preservation of Wealth (Maal): Ensuring justice in financial dealings and avoiding harm to personal or communal wealth.

By integrating the maqasid, we evaluate the broader impact and spirit of our actions, ensuring they contribute to the well-being of individuals and society.

This approach promotes balance and justice, preventing rigid adherence to rulings that might contradict the objectives of mercy, ease, and benefit that Islam seeks to achieve.

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Sunday, December 15, 2024

Make Your Masjid a Masjid

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Make Your Masjid a Masjid

A well-functioning masjid exemplifies the Prophet’s  (ﷺ) model, where the masjid was a place of worship, a school, a refuge for the needy, and a meeting point for community affairs. 

However, in practice, many masjids, unfortunately, struggle with insularity, lack of youth engagement, or an overemphasis on ritual without fostering deeper relationships and a sense of belonging. 

The true embodiment of the community within masjids requires intentional efforts to create welcoming, inclusive, and vibrant spaces that reflect the diversity and aspirations of the Ummah. This includes emphasizing service, dialogue, and collaboration while addressing contemporary challenges Muslims face.

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Friday, December 13, 2024

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday)

Friday, known as Jumu'ah, holds a special place as the most blessed day of the week. It is a day of spiritual significance, where Muslims gather for the congregational Jumu'ah prayer, a duty emphasized in the Quran, 

“O you who have believed, when [the adhan] is called for the prayer on the day of Jumu'ah [Friday], then proceed to the remembrance of Allah and leave trade. That is better for you, if you only knew.”
(Quran, Al-Jumu'ah 62:9).  

The Prophet(ﷺ) highlighted its virtues, calling it the best day on which the sun rises, as it marks the creation of Adam, his entrance into Paradise, and the Day of Judgment. Reciting Surah Al-Kahf, sending abundant blessings upon the Prophet(ﷺ), and making du’as are highly encouraged, as Friday contains an hour during which prayers are accepted. It is a day of renewal, reflection, and blessings for all who seize its opportunities.

Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance.Aameen.

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Thursday, December 12, 2024

Developing Good Character

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Developing Good Character

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ)  emphasized the role of character in attaining success in the Hereafter:  "The heaviest thing on the scales on the Day of Judgment will be good character." (Tirmidhi)

Key Traits to Cultivate

Patience (Sabr): Essential for enduring life’s trials and staying steadfast in worship. 
Say, "O My servants who have believed, fear your Lord. For those who do good in this world is good, and the earth of Allah is spacious. Indeed, the patient will be given their reward without account.”’  (Quran, Az-Zumar 39:10)

Gratitude (Shukr): Recognizing Allah’s blessings and using them in obedience to Him. "If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]." (Quran, Ibrahim 

Humility: Avoiding arrogance and acknowledging one’s dependence on Allah. "And do not walk upon the earth exultantly. Indeed, you will never tear the earth [apart], and you will never reach the mountains in height." 
(Quran, Al-Isra’ 17:37)

Forgiveness: Overlooking the faults of others as a means of earning Allah’s forgiveness. "... And let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you?" 
(Quran, An-Noor 24:22)

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Hajj: A Journey to Forgiveness

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Hajj: A Journey to Forgiveness

The pilgrimage to Makkah is a transformative act of worship that symbolizes the ultimate journey to the Hereafter. The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Whoever performs Hajj and does not engage in obscene language or behavior will return [sin-free] like the day his mother gave birth to him." 
(Sahih al-Bukhari)

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Charity Purifies Wealth

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Charity Purifies Wealth

Charity (zakat and sadaqah) purifies wealth and helps the less fortunate, earning immense rewards in the Hereafter: "The example of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allah is like a seed [of grain] which grows seven spikes; in each spike is a hundred grains. And Allah multiplies [His reward] for whom He wills." (Quran, Al-Baqarah 2:261)
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Fasting is a Shield

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Fasting is a Shield

Fasting during Ramadan and voluntary fasts throughout the year help cultivate self-discipline and spiritual purification. 
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "Fasting is a shield; it will protect you from the Hellfire and prevent you from sin." 
(Sahih al-Bukhari)

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Pillar of the Hereafter

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Pillar of the Hereafter

Salah (prayer) is the first deed for which a person will be held accountable on the Day of Judgment. The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: "The first matter that the slave will be brought to account for on the Day of Judgment is the Salah. If it is sound, then the rest of his deeds will be sound. And if it is bad, then the rest of his deeds will be bad." (Tirmidhi). 

Establishing regular Salah with sincerity and devotion is a cornerstone of preparing for the Hereafter.

In another hadith, the Prophet (ﷺ) said:
"The first thing for which a person will be brought to account on the Day of Resurrection is his Salah. If it is found to be complete, it will be recorded as complete, but if anything is lacking, Allah will say: 'Look and see if My slave has any voluntary (prayers) to make up what is deficient in his obligatory prayers.' Then the rest of his deeds will be judged in like manner." (Sunan Abu Dawood)

This hadith emphasizes the importance of performing Sunnah and voluntary prayers, which serve to perfect and compensate for any shortcomings in our obligatory prayers. It highlights Allah's mercy and His willingness to accept additional acts of worship to make up for deficiencies.

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Wednesday, December 11, 2024

Life is a Mirage

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Life is a Mirage

Life in the dunya (world) is portrayed as fleeting and deceptive, often likened to a mirage. 

Allah says: "Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another and competition in increase of wealth and children—like the example of a rain whose [resulting] plant growth pleases the tillers; then it dries, and you see it turn yellow; then it becomes [scattered] debris. And in the Hereafter is severe punishment and forgiveness from Allah and approval. And what is the worldly life except the enjoyment of delusion?" (Quran, Al-Hadid 57:20)

This perspective encourages Muslims to adopt a balanced outlook—engaging with the world responsibly while remaining spiritually focused on the eternal realities of the Hereafter.

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Life is a Test

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Life is a Test

Life in this world is described as a test, and success is defined by our readiness for eternal life. This preparation involves integrating belief, worship, good character, and reliance on Allah. 

The Quran highlights the foundation of this success: "Indeed, those who have said, 'Our Lord is Allah' and then remained steadfast – there will be no fear concerning them, nor will they grieve." (Quran, Al-Ahqaf 46:13)

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Saturday, December 7, 2024

Achieving Success

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

The Quran emphasizes purification to achieve success in this world and the Hereafter. 

Allah swears by the soul: 

“And [by] the soul and He who proportioned it. And inspired it [with discernment of] its wickedness and righteousness, he has succeeded who purifies it, And he has failed who instills it [with corruption]. (Quran, Ash-Shams 91:7-10)

These ayahs highlight that success is contingent upon purifying the self. This involves cleansing the heart from diseases such as envy, arrogance, and hypocrisy and adorning it with virtues like sincerity, humility, and gratitude. 

Purification is not only an internal process but also has an external manifestation through acts of charity and good deeds. 

Remembrance of Allah (Dhikr) is a cornerstone of spiritual purification. Allah says: "Indeed, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest." (Quran, Ar-Ra’d 13:28)

Dhikr cleanses the heart of heedlessness, strengthens faith, and cultivates a deep connection with Allah.

“The most beloved of deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if they are small." (Bukhari; Muslim)

This Hadith underscores that purification is a gradual process that requires persistence and regular effort. 

Allah praises those who come to Him with a sound heart. "But only he (will prosper) that brings to Allah a sound heart;" (Quran, Ash-Shuara 26:89).
 
May Allah purify our hearts and grant us a sound heart. Aameen.

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Danger of Bad Company

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Danger of Bad Company

The Quran warns against associating with those who lead us away from Allah: "And on the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret] and say, 'Oh, I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way. Oh, woe to me! I wish I had not taken that one as a friend.'" (Quran 25:27-28)
This ayah highlights the danger of bad company and its consequences in the Hereafter.

Imam al-Ghazali, in Ihya Ulum al-Din, compares companionship to a dye: it colors the character of the person it touches. Righteous friends beautify the soul, while corrupt companions tarnish it.

Ibn Ata’illah also discusses this in his Hikam:
"Do not take as a companion one whose state does not uplift you and whose words do not direct you to Allah."

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Thursday, December 5, 2024

Influence of Companionship

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Influence of Companionship

The people we associate with profoundly impact our spiritual state. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:
"A man is upon the religion of his close friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends." 
(Abu Dawood)

Surround yourself with individuals who inspire righteousness and remind you of Allah. This supportive environment fosters accountability and consistent spiritual growth.

May Allah grant us righteous companions. Aameen.

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Wednesday, December 4, 2024

Birr al-Walidayn -- Contemporary Scholars Showing Kindness and Humility Towards Their Parents

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Birr al-Walidayn
Contemporary Scholars Showing Kindness and Humility Towards Their Parents

Shaykh Muhammad Mukhtar al-Shinqiti (born in 1966), a distinguished Mauritanian scholar, is celebrated for his extensive expertise in fiqh and hadith. 

Beyond his scholarly achievements, his legacy is profoundly marked by his exceptional devotion to his parents, particularly his mother. Despite his demanding role as a sought-after teacher and speaker, Shaykh al-Shinqiti consistently placed his mother’s well-being above all else.

He would not commence public lectures or lessons without first seeking his mother’s permission, emphasizing that her satisfaction took precedence over the accolades of his students or recognition from the broader community. 

His humility and unwavering dedication to gaining his mother’s approval underscore the importance of parental contentment in earning Allah’s blessings. His success as a highly respected scholar and teacher exemplifies the barakah (divine blessings) that result from honoring one's parents.

Similarly, Shaykh Tawfiq Dhamra, a revered Qira'at teacher in Jordan and author of widely used books on Qira'at, displayed a similar commitment to familial responsibilities.

According to our teacher, Shaykh Tawfiq would not accept speaking engagements abroad if they required him to be away for more than ten days. He explained, “I fear my mother will be worried, and my wife will feel neglected.” 

Such actions reflect the deep sense of responsibility and care these scholars demonstrated toward their families, serving as timeless examples of balancing faith, scholarship, and familial obligations.

One of our teachers, a renowned scholar in the United States, and a married father, exemplified profound humility toward his mother by seeking her permission before accepting any invitations for overseas speaking engagements.

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Monday, December 2, 2024

The Ultimate Form of Dhikr -- The Quran

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

The Ultimate Form of Dhikr -- The Quran

While all forms of dhikr are virtuous—such as saying SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar, and La ilaha illallah—the Quran holds a unique and elevated position as the ultimate remembrance of Allah. Its recitation and reflection fulfill the heart’s need for spiritual nourishment and bring believers closer to their Creator.

Allah describes the Quran as a reminder (dhikr): 
"Indeed, We have sent down the Reminder [the Quran], and indeed We will be its guardian." (Surah Al-Hijr, 15:9)

Command to Recite the Quran in Prayer: "Recite, [O Muhammad], what has been revealed to you of the Book and establish prayer..." 
(Surah Al-Ankabut, 29:45)

Reciting the Quran in prayer, particularly in the standing position (qiyam), is one of the highest forms of dhikr.

The Quran as a form of remembrance: The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "The best of you are those who learn the Quran and teach it." (Sahih al-Bukhari)

This hadith highlights the elevated status of engaging with the Qur'an, whether by reciting, memorizing, or teaching it. 

Reward for Reciting Each Letter of the Quran: The Prophet (ﷺ) said:

"Whoever recites a letter from the Book of Allah will receive a good deed as a reward, and each good deed will be multiplied tenfold. I do not say that 'Alif Lam Meem' is one letter, but 'Alif' is a letter, 'Lam' is a letter, and 'Meem' is a letter." (Sunan al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 2910)

This emphasizes the immense reward attached to the dhikr of Qur'anic recitation.

Start your day with reading, reciting, and reflecting upon the Quran. May Allah grant you success. Aameen.

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Importance of Dhikr and Benefit of Joining Gatherings of Remembrance

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Importance of Dhikr and Benefit of Joining Gatherings of Remembrance

Abu Hurayra reported that the Prophet Muhammad  (ﷺ) said: 
"Allah has angels who roam the roads seeking out those who remember Allah. When they find a group of people remembering Allah, they call one another and encompass them with their wings up to the lowest heaven. Their Lord asks them, although He knows better than them, 'What are My servants saying?' They say, 'They are glorifying You, proclaiming Your greatness, praising You, and extolling Your majesty.' He asks, 'Have they seen Me?' They say, 'No, by Allah, they have not seen You.' He says, 'And how would it be if they saw Me?' They say, 'If they saw You, they would worship You more devoutly, glorify You more intensely, and praise You more fervently.' He says, 'What are they asking Me for?' They say, 'They ask You for Paradise.' He says, 'Have they seen it?' They say, 'No, by Allah, O Lord, they have not seen it.' He says, 'And how would it be if they had seen it?' They say, 'If they had seen it, they would be even more eager for it, and more earnest in seeking it, and would have a greater desire for it.' He says, 'And from what are they seeking My protection?' They say, 'From Hellfire.' He says, 'Have they seen it?' They say, 'No, by Allah, O Lord, they have not seen it.' He says, 'And how would it be if they had seen it?' They say, 'If they had seen it, they would flee from it even more earnestly and would have a greater fear of it.' He says, 'I call you to witness that I have forgiven them.' One of the angels says, 'There is someone among them who is not one of them; he came for some other need.' He says, 'They are sitting together, and the one sitting with them will not be excluded from their blessings.'” (Bukhari; Muslim)

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Saturday, November 30, 2024

Who are You?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Who are You?

You are not defined by the moments when your hands are raised in prayer, your face adorned with patience in the eyes of others, or the public acts of charity you perform. Instead, your essence is revealed in the darkest, most challenging moments of your life. It is in those moments, by the grace of Allah, that you are chosen as a vessel through which He manifests His will. 

Allah Almighty reminds us:
"And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient—those who, when disaster strikes them, say, 'Indeed we belong to Allah, and indeed to Him we will return.'" (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:155-156).

Your true self emerges in how you respond to these trials, embodying faith and submission to Allah's divine decree.

May Allah grant us ‘afiyah, patience, and save us from the trials and tribulations of this life and the next. Aameen.

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People of Knowledge vs Information

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People of Knowledge vs Information

The distinction between people of knowledge (ahl al-‘ilm) and those with mere access to information is significant. 

The Qur'an and Sunnah emphasize the elevated status of those who acquire knowledge with sincerity and apply it with wisdom, humility, and taqwa (God-consciousness). 

Allah Almighty says, "Say, Are those who know equal to those who do not know?" (Quran, Az-Zumar 39:9), highlighting the value of true knowledge. 

While information is abundant and easily accessible today, knowledge in Islam involves not only understanding facts but also embodying them in actions and living according to divine guidance. 

People of information may recite texts or quote sources, but without comprehension and practice, their knowledge remains superficial. 

True scholars and seekers of knowledge, however, use their understanding to draw closer to Allah, guide others, and uphold justice, embodying the prophetic example of wisdom, humility, and benefit to creation.

May Allah increase us in knowledge, understanding, and good deeds. Aameen.


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Friday, November 29, 2024

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Contentious

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) - Contentious

And We have certainly diversified in this Quran for the people from every [kind of] example; but man has ever been, most of anything, [prone to] dispute. [Quran, Al-Kahf 18:54]

This ayah highlights the comprehensive and diverse nature of the Quran's guidance. It emphasizes that Allah has provided numerous examples and lessons within the Quran to address various aspects of human life, ensuring relevance and accessibility for all people, regardless of their backgrounds. 

The ayah also points to a characteristic weakness of human nature: the tendency to engage in disputes and debates, often driven by arrogance or a refusal to accept the truth. 

This is a reminder to approach the Quran with humility, seeking understanding and guidance rather than contention. It underscores the importance of reflecting on its teachings sincerely, recognizing that they are meant to lead humanity toward the truth.

Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance. Aameen.

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Friday, November 22, 2024

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday)--Accountability to Allah

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday)--Accountability to Allah

“Indeed, We have made that which is on the earth adornment for it that We may test them [as to] which of them is best in deed.” (Quran, Al-Kahf 18:7)

This ayah reminds us that the beauty and blessings of this world are temporary and serve as a test. 

Life's true purpose is not in accumulating worldly adornments but in excelling in good deeds with sincerity and obedience to Allah. Focus on what pleases Allah, and let the fleeting attractions of this world inspire gratitude, not distraction. 

It subtly emphasizes accountability. Our actions and choices in response to the trials and blessings of life will determine our outcome in the Hereafter.

Always remember that this life is preparation for the eternal Hereafter. Prioritize deeds that draw you closer to Allah over fleeting pleasures.

Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance. Aameen.

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Monday, November 18, 2024

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Alhamdulillah

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 
Let’s Read  Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Alhamdulillah

Surah Al-Kahf begins with Alhamdulillah, a profound declaration of gratitude and recognition of Allah's immense favor in revealing the Quran as a flawless guide for humanity. The ayah emphasizes that the Quran, sent upon His Servant, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), is free from any deviation or contradiction. 

This underscores Allah's perfection in providing a comprehensive, consistent, and unerring source of guidance. The Quran is a divine and complete blueprint for life that demands our gratitude, reflection, and commitment to implementing its teachings in all aspects of our lives. It also reminds us of the mercy and wisdom of Allah in granting humanity such a clear and reliable path to righteousness and salvation.

May Allah grant us righteous deeds. Aameen.

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Tawakkul (Reliance on Allah)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 
Tawakkul (Reliance on Allah)

The Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: “If you were to rely upon Allah with the reliance He is due, you would be given provision like the birds: they go out hungry in the morning and come back full in the evening.” (Tirmidhi)

Tawakkul involves effort (like the bird searching for food) combined with unwavering trust in Allah’s provision.

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Sunday, November 10, 2024

Aging with Grace

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Aging with Grace

Allah Almighty says, “And he to whom We grant long life We reverse in creation; so will they not understand?” (Quran, Ya-Sin 36:68).

This ayah reminds us that old age brings physical changes that may lead to limitations, but they also offer the wisdom and perspective that come with experience. Islam teaches that these changes are not to be feared or resented but accepted as part of Allah’s design, serving as reminders of human frailty and the need to turn to Allah in humility.
 
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) provides a compassionate and respectful view of aging. He stated, “The best of people are those who live long and perform good deeds.” (Tirmidhi).

This Hadith reflects the importance of using the years Allah grants us to grow in good deeds, drawing closer to Him and preparing for the hereafter. Aging is a blessing when one uses it to continue building faith, deepening worship, and contributing to society.

May Allah strengthen our iman and increase us in good deeds. Aameen.

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Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Enduring Good Deeds

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- 
Enduring Good Deeds

“Wealth and children are [but] adornment of the worldly life. But the enduring good deeds are better to your Lord for reward and better for [one's] hope.” [Quran, Al-Kahf 18:26]

Allah Almighty reminds us of the temporary nature of worldly adornments, like wealth and children, which often captivate our hearts and desires. 

Allah emphasizes that while these blessings are meant to bring joy and comfort in this life, they should not be our ultimate pursuit. Instead, the "enduring good deeds" — acts of worship, kindness, and charity done sincerely for Allah’s sake — are far more valuable, both in reward and hope for the Hereafter. 

Unlike fleeting worldly adornments, these righteous deeds leave a lasting impact and a source of true fulfillment and eternal benefit with Allah.

"Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance." [Quran, Al-Kahf 18:10]
Aameen

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Friday, November 1, 2024

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Trust in Allah in the Face of Adversity

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Trust in Allah in the Face of Adversity

The story of the Youth of the Cave, or Ashab al-Kahf, in Surah Al-Kahf (18:9–26) offers profound lessons in faith, reliance on Allah, and resilience in the face of adversity. 

These young believers fled their society to escape persecution and protect their faith, taking refuge in a cave where Allah caused them to sleep for centuries, shielding them from their oppressive environment. 

Their story teaches us the importance of prioritizing faith over worldly pressures, reminding us that true guidance and protection come only from Allah. 

It emphasizes the value of surrounding oneself with like-minded companions who support one another in righteousness, as these youths strengthened each other’s resolve to stay committed to their beliefs. 

Additionally, the miraculous preservation of their lives underscores Allah’s power and wisdom in safeguarding those who seek His refuge. 

The story serves as a reminder that, even in moments of isolation or challenge, Allah’s mercy and protection are always near, encouraging believers to trust in His divine plan regardless of external difficulties.

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Friday, October 25, 2024

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Always be Thankful for What You Have

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Always be Thankful for What You Have

The story of the man with two gardens in Surah Al-Kahf teaches profound lessons about humility, gratitude, and the fleeting nature of worldly wealth. 

The man, blessed with lush gardens, became arrogant and ungrateful, attributing his success solely to himself and doubting the reality of the Hereafter. His neglect of thanking Allah and his reliance on material wealth led to the eventual destruction of his gardens. 

This story reminds us to remain humble, acknowledge Allah as the source of all blessings, and prioritize faith and good deeds over worldly possessions, which are temporary and can vanish at any moment.

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Tuesday, October 22, 2024

Developing Emotional Resilience

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Developing Emotional Resilience

At the heart of emotional resilience in Islam is tawakkul—reliance on Allah. 

Allah says: "...And whoever relies upon
 Allah – then He is sufficient for him. Indeed, Allah will accomplish His purpose." 
(Quran, At-Talaq, 65:3)

Ibn Ata’illah advises: "Do not let the pain of what is not yet given to you make you forget the joy of what you already have." 

This wisdom teaches us to find peace by focusing on what Allah has granted us rather than worrying about the future.

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Thursday, October 17, 2024

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) - Remain Humble and Patient in Seeking Knowledge

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let’s Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday)
Remain Humble and Patient in Seeking Knowledge

The story of Prophet Musa (peace be upon him) in Surah Al-Kahf highlights the importance of humility and perseverance in seeking knowledge. Despite being a great prophet, Musa embarked on a journey to learn from Al-Khidr, a servant of Allah who had been given special wisdom. 

This story emphasizes that even those with significant knowledge must remain humble and willing to learn from others. It also teaches that pursuing knowledge often requires patience and trust in Allah's wisdom, as there are hidden reasons and lessons behind things that may not be immediately clear. 

Seeking knowledge is a continuous journey filled with growth and understanding.

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True Beauty of Aging

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

True Beauty of Aging

The true beauty of aging lies in the heart that beats with love for Allah and the soul that longs to meet Him, as Allah says,

“Indeed, those who have said, 'Our Lord is Allah' and then remained steadfast— the angels will descend upon them, [saying], 'Do not fear and do not grieve but receive good tidings of Paradise, which you were promised.' [Quran, Fussilat 41:30]

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Friday, October 11, 2024

Building a Meaningful Life

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Building a Meaningful Life

All humans are dead except those who have knowledge; and all those who have knowledge are asleep, except those who do good deeds; and those who do good deeds are deceived, except those who are sincere; and those who are sincere are always in a state of worry. 
(Imam Shafi'i)

A meaningful life is built on knowledge, action, sincerity, and constant spiritual awareness.

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Let's Read Surah Kahf Today -- The Losers

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 
Let's Read Surah Kahf Today -- The Losers

Say, [O Muhammad], "Shall we [believers] inform you of the greatest losers as to [their] deeds? They are those whose effort is lost in worldly life, while they think they are doing well in work." 
(Quran, Al-Kahf 18:103-104)

Allah describes the true losers as those whose efforts in this world are misguided and fruitless. Despite their hard work, their actions bring no benefit in the Hereafter because they were not aligned with the truth or done for the sake of Allah. These people may believe they are doing good, but their deeds are ultimately wasted because they fail to recognize their purpose or submit to Allah’s guidance. 

The ayahs serve as a reminder that success is not measured by worldly achievements but by the sincerity of one's faith and deeds in seeking Allah’s pleasure and preparing for eternal life in the Hereafter.

رَبَّنَا آتِنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً وَهَيِّئْ لَنَا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا رَشَدًا
Our Lord, grant us from Yourself mercy and prepare for us from our affair right guidance.


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Thursday, October 10, 2024

Death is not Morbid

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Death is not Morbid

In Islam, death is not viewed as morbid but as a natural and necessary transition from this temporary life to the eternal Hereafter. Muslims are encouraged to remember death frequently as a way to inspire mindfulness and spiritual growth. 

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said: "Remember often the destroyer of pleasures (i.e., death)." (Ibn Majah). This remembrance is not meant to instill fear but to motivate believers to live righteous lives, focus on good deeds, seek repentance, and prepare for meeting Allah. Far from being morbid, death serves as a powerful reminder of life’s purpose and encourages striving toward eternal peace and Allah's mercy.

May Allah grant us excellent ending. Yaa Muqallibal Quloob Thabbit Qalbee ‘alaa Deenik. Oh turner of the hearts (Allah, the Most High), keep our hearts firm on your religion. Aameen.

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Tuesday, October 8, 2024

Prioritize the Hereafter

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Prioritize the Hereafter

"Whoever makes the Hereafter his goal, Allah makes his heart rich, organizes his affairs, and the world will come to him despite being reluctant. And whoever makes the world his goal, Allah puts poverty right before his eyes, disorganizes his affairs, and the world does not come to him except what has been decreed for him."
— Narrated by At-Tirmidhi and Ibn Majah.

When a person prioritizes the Hereafter, Allah blesses both their spiritual and worldly lives. Allah grants them inner contentment, peace of mind, and takes care of their worldly affairs. But, chasing the world without regard for Allah and the Hereafter leads to inner turmoil and unfulfilled desires, despite accumulating wealth or possessions.

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Prioritize Worship

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Prioritize Worship

Abu Hurayrah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: "Indeed Allah, Most High said: 'O son of Adam! Devote yourself to My worship, I will fill your chest with riches and alleviate your poverty. And if you do not do so, then I will fill your hands with problems and not alleviate your poverty.'" [Tirmidhi]

Prioritize worship and trust in Allah's provision—spiritual devotion leads to inner peace and alleviation of worldly difficulties.

Neglect of worship results in the opposite: a life filled with stress, problems, and unmet desires, with no true relief from poverty (physical or spiritual).

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Friday, October 4, 2024

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Excellence in Seeking Knowledge

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Excellence in Seeking Knowledge

The story of Prophet Musa and Al-Khidr (Surah al-Kahf, ayahs 60-82) highlights the pursuit of knowledge and the importance of humility in learning.

Despite being a prophet, Musa embarks on a journey to learn from Al-Khidr, displaying the virtue of seeking excellence (ihsan) in knowledge.

It shows that even those with profound understanding must strive to deepen their knowledge and accept the limits of their understanding with humility.

May Allah grant us a sound understanding of the Quran and ihsan in all we do. Aameen.

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Let's Read Surah Kahf Today (Friday) -- Striving for Excellence

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Surah Al-Kahf (Chapter 18 of the Quran) offers numerous lessons about striving for excellence, both in faith and character. Here are a few key messages related to excellence:

1. Excellence in Seeking Knowledge: The story of Prophet Musa (Moses) and Al-Khidr (ayahs 60-82) highlights the pursuit of knowledge and the importance of humility in learning. Despite being a prophet, Musa embarks on a journey to learn from Al-Khidr, displaying the virtue of seeking excellence in knowledge. It shows that even those with profound understanding must strive to deepen their knowledge and accept the limits of their understanding with humility.

2. Excellence through Patience and Trust in Allah: Throughout Surah Al-Kahf, the importance of patience and trust in Allah's plan is emphasized. This excellence in patience is illustrated in different stories:
   - The people of the cave (Ashabul Kahf) exhibit patience and trust in Allah when they seek refuge in the cave, relying on Him alone for their safety and well-being (ayahs 9-26).
   - The lesson in the story of Musa and Al-Khidr also reflects the idea of trusting Allah's wisdom in situations that seem unfavorable or unjust at first glance. Musa's inability to initially understand Al-Khidr’s actions teaches us that Allah’s wisdom encompasses what we cannot see, and excellence in patience involves trusting His judgment.

3. Excellence in Wealth Management and Gratitude: The parable of the two men and their gardens (ayahs 32-44) teaches us about the attitude of gratitude and the excellence in handling wealth and success. One man is blessed with bountiful gardens and wealth but becomes arrogant, thinking that his possessions are everlasting. He fails to acknowledge Allah as the source of his blessings. The other man, who has less, admonishes him and reminds him to be grateful and humble. Excellence here is portrayed through humility, gratitude to Allah, and the responsible use of wealth.

4. Excellence in Leadership and Justice: The story of Dhul-Qarnayn (ayahs 83-98) highlights the traits of an excellent leader. Dhul-Qarnayn is depicted as a just ruler who uses his power to benefit people, helping those who are oppressed by constructing a barrier against Gog and Magog. He exemplifies justice, kindness, and humility, recognizing that his power is a gift from Allah and thus ruling with responsibility and fairness.

The overall message of Surah Al-Kahf regarding excellence is that true excellence is found in the pursuit of knowledge, humility, gratitude, patience, justice, and trust in Allah. These stories remind us that excellence is not merely about material wealth or status, but about the refinement of our character and our relationship with Allah and others.

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Thursday, October 3, 2024

Allah's Promise of Relief After Difficulty

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم 

Allah's Promise of Relief After Difficulty

Allah Most High says, “For indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. So when you have finished [your duties], then stand up [for worship]. And to your Lord direct [your] longing.” [Quran, Ash-Sharh 94:5-8]

The repetition of the ayahs "with hardship [will be] ease" signifies a Divine promise of relief after difficulty, highlighting the inseparable nature of ease and struggle in life.

The final ayah urges the Prophet (ﷺ)—and believers by extension—to remain diligent in worship and to turn to Allah with complete devotion after completing worldly responsibilities.

This surah embodies encouragement, reminding us of Allah’s constant support and the transient nature of hardships. Don’t despair.

May Allah save us from the trials and tribulations of this life and grant us relief from all our difficulties. Aameen.

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Why Some Children are not Kind and Dutiful Towards Their Parents?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

These verses consistently emphasize the importance of being dutiful and kind to parents, highlighting gratitude, care, and humility towards them, especially during their old age. 

And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.  [Quran, al-Isra' 17:23]

And We have enjoined upon man [care] for his parents. His mother carried him, [increasing her] in weakness upon weakness, and his weaning is in two years. Be grateful to Me and to your parents; to Me is the [final] destination. (14) But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them but accompany them in [this] world with appropriate kindness and follow the way of those who turn back to Me [in repentance]. Then to Me will be your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do. [Quran, Luqman 31:14-15]

And We have enjoined upon man goodness to parents. But if they endeavor to make you associate with Me that of which you have no knowledge, do not obey them. To Me is your return, and I will inform you about what you used to do. [Quran, Al-Ankabut 29:8]

And We have enjoined upon man, to his parents, good treatment. His mother carried him with hardship and gave birth to him with hardship, and his gestation and weaning [period] is thirty months. [He grows] until, when he reaches maturity and reaches [the age of] forty years, he says, "My Lord, enable me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents and to work righteousness of which You will approve and make righteous for me my offspring. Indeed, I have repented to You, and indeed, I am of the Muslims." [Quran, Al-Ahqaf 46:15]

And [recall] when We took the covenant from the Children of Israel, [enjoining upon them], "Do not worship except Allah; and to parents do good and to relatives, orphans, and the needy. And speak to people good [words] and establish prayer and give zakah." Then you turned away, except a few of you, and you were refusing. [Quran, Al Baqarah 2:83]

Worship Allah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good, and to relatives, orphans, the needy, the near neighbor, the neighbor farther away, the companion at your side, the traveler, and those whom your right hands possess. Indeed, Allah does not like those who are self-deluding and boastful. [Quran, An-Nisa 4:36]

Despite the clear Quranic guidance emphasizing kindness and respect towards parents, many children may not heed these commands due to a combination of social, psychological, cultural, and individual factors. Here are some reasons why this may happen:

1. Changing Social Values: In modern societies, individualism and personal autonomy are often highly valued. These values can sometimes conflict with the traditional expectations of family responsibilities, leading some children to prioritize their independence over caring for their parents.

2. Generational Differences: Generational gaps in perspectives, values, and experiences can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts between parents and children. Technological advancements and societal changes can create differences that make it difficult for children to relate to their parents’ worldview.

3. Lack of Religious Awareness: Many children may not have a strong understanding of or connection to their faith, resulting in a lack of awareness or appreciation of the Islamic teachings on being good to parents. This can happen if religious education is not prioritized or if the family environment does not foster a deep understanding of these values.

4. Negative Experiences: Sometimes, children may have experienced difficult or even traumatic relationships with their parents. In cases where parents have been abusive, overly controlling, or neglectful, children may find it emotionally challenging to follow these commands, despite the teachings.

5. Cultural Norms and Influences: In some cultures, emphasis on individual success, career, or lifestyle can lead to children placing their personal ambitions above their responsibilities to their parents. The influence of peer groups and media can also promote lifestyles that do not align with the concept of family care and respect for parents.

6. Miscommunication or Lack of Emotional Bond: Poor communication or lack of an emotional bond can make it hard for children to fulfill their duties towards parents. If children do not feel a close connection or understanding, they may become distant and neglect their responsibilities.

7. Economic Pressures: In some cases, economic pressures can create tension. Children who are struggling to manage their careers, finances, or their own families might feel overwhelmed, making it difficult to provide the level of support their parents need.

8. Influence of Modern Lifestyles: The fast-paced nature of modern life, along with the influence of social media and technology, can sometimes lead to children becoming more self-centered or distracted. The hustle culture often means less time is dedicated to relationships, including that with parents.

9. Lack of Positive Role Models: If children do not see positive examples of caring for parents in their environment, it may not be a priority for them. Seeing others, including extended family or friends, neglecting their responsibilities towards their parents can normalize such behavior.

10. Emotional Detachment in Upbringing: If parents did not foster a loving, nurturing environment while raising their children, the bond required for later care and kindness may be weak. Emotional detachment in upbringing can hinder the natural inclination towards showing gratitude and care.

To address these issues, a holistic approach is needed. Strengthening religious education, fostering emotional bonds from an early age, addressing generational differences with empathy, and creating a culture of respect and care for elders are all steps that can help bridge this gap. A conscious effort towards understanding the value of parents and making family responsibilities a priority can foster a more balanced approach to fulfilling these Quranic commands. 

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