In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum
Dear Friends
I pray that you are well.
As Eid is approaching, we would like to point out some things that some people do out of ignorance of the laws of Allah and the Sunnah of the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu alayhi wssallam). These include the following:
1. Visiting graves on the two Eid days.
This is contrary to the purpose of Eid which is to express joy and happiness, and it goes against the teaching of the Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wssallam) and the actions of the salaf. It comes under the general meaning of the Prophet’s prohibition on visiting graves on a specific day and making that like a festival, as the scholars stated.
2 – Forsaking the jamaa’ah (congregation) and sleeping late and missing the prayer.
Unfortunately you see some Muslims missing the prayer and Muslim men forsaking the jamaa’ah to celebrate Eid. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wssallam)) said: “The covenant that stands between us and them is the prayer; whoever forsakes it is a kaafir.” [al-Tirmidhi, al-Nasaa’i]
And he said: “The most burdensome prayers for the hypocrites are the ‘Isha’ and Fajr prayers. If they knew (what goodness) there is in them, they would come to them even if they had to crawl. I had thought of ordering the call to prayer to be given, then I would tell a man to lead the people in prayer, then I would go, taking some men with me carrying bundles of wood, to people who do not attend the prayer, and would burn their houses down around them.” [Muslim]
3. Women mixing with men in the prayer place, the streets and elsewhere, and crowding together with men in those places.
This is a source of great fitnah (temptation) and serious danger. Both women and men should be warned against that, and the necessary means should be taken to prevent that as much as possible. Men and youth should not leave the prayer place or the mosque until after the women have dispersed completely.
4. Some women going out wearing perfume and makeup, and without veils.
This is a problem which is widespread, and many people take this matter lightly. Allah is the One Whose help we seek. Some women even dress up in their finest clothes and put on the best perfume when they go to the masjid to pray Taraaweeh or go to the Eid prayers, etc. The Prophet (sallallahu alayhi wssallam) said: “Any woman who puts on perfume and passes by people so that they can smell her fragrance, is an adulteress.” [al-Nasaa’i, al-Tirmidhi]
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah ((sallallahu alayhi wssallam)) said: “There are two types of the people of Hell whom I have not seen. People with whips like the tails of cattle with which they beat the people, and women who are clothed yet naked, going astray and leading others astray, with their heads looking like the humps of camels, leaning to one side. They will not enter Paradise nor even smell its fragrance, although its fragrance may be detected from such and such a distance.” [Muslim]
The guardians of women must fear Allah with regard to those who are under their care, and fulfill the duty of protecting and maintaining that Allah has enjoined upon them, because,
... ٱلرِّجَالُ قَوَّٰمُونَ عَلَى ٱلنِّسَآءِ بِمَا فَضَّلَ ٱللَّهُ بَعْضَهُمْ عَلَىٰ بَعْضٍ وَبِمَآ أَنفَقُوا۟ مِنْ أَمْوَٰلِهِمْ ۚ[al-Nisa’ 4:34]
Men are in protectors and maintainers of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth...
So they must guide them and show them that which will lead to their salvation and their safety in this world and in the Hereafter, by means of keeping away from that which Allah has forbidden and striving for that which will bring them closer to Allah.
5. Listening to singing and haraam things.
Among the evil things that are widespread in these times is music and singing. They have become very widespread and people take this matter lightly. It is on TV and radio, in cars, homes and marketplaces. There is no power and no strength except with Allah. Even cell phones are not free of this evil. There are companies which compete in putting the latest music on the ringers of their cell phones, and in this way music has even reached the masjids. This is a great problem and a great evil whereby music is heard in the houses of Allah. This confirms the words of the Prophet ((sallallahu alayhi wssallam), “There will be among my ummah people who will regard adultery, silk, alcohol and musical instruments as permissible.” [al-Bukhari]
The Muslim has to fear Allah and realize that the blessing of Allah means that he is obliged to give thanks to Him. It is not gratitude for the Muslim to disobey his Lord, when He is the One Who has bestowed this blessing upon him.
One of the righteous passed by some people who were engaged in idle entertainment on the day of Eid and said to them, “If you did well in Ramadhan, this is not the way to give thanks for that. If you did badly in Ramadhan, this is not the way that the one who did badly should behave.”
May Allah make us of those who say "We hear and we obey" and protect us from disobedience and doing things that cause His displeasure and wrath. Ameen.
Allahumma salli 'ala Muhammad wa 'ala aalihi wa sahbihi wassallam.
And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam
source: http://islamqa.info/en/36856
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