Saturday, June 30, 2012

May God Have Mercy...

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

We don't have 20 years to plan for our lives and thinking "I will start praying or obeying Allah or following the Sunnah when I am 40."

Each breath you take is a breath closer to death and perhaps your next breath is your last breath. Therefore, with every given breath we must be prepared for the last breath that we will take in this temporal life.
A man dies in accordance with what he had lived in, and is resurrected in accordance with what he had died in.
[Jami’us Saghir]

Death is the only certain thing in this life but most people don't give much consideration. Death will come unannounced, whether you are young or old, healthy or sick, rich or poor.

Allah says,
يْنَمَا تَكُونُوا۟ يُدْرِككُّمُ ٱلْمَوْتُ وَلَوْ كُنتُمْ فِى بُرُوجٍ مُّشَيَّدَةٍ ۗ وَإِن تُصِبْهُمْ حَسَنَةٌ يَقُولُوا۟ هَـٰذِهِۦ مِنْ عِندِ ٱللَّـهِ ۖ

Wherever you may be, death will overtake you, even if you should be within towers of lofty construction...
[Qur'an An-Nisa 4:78]

Think, in what state would you like to be when you breathe your last. Is it in a state of disobedience like dancing and clapping with loud and annoying music, the state of what some of my neighbors are in for the last many hours (it is now bedtime for many), or in a state of peace and contentment?

Whatever the soul is preoccupied with in this world, it will also be preoccupied with the same thing at the time of death. Of course there are exceptions. Even though we can be spending our entire life worshipping and doing good deeds, we should never take for granted that we will attain the mercy of Allah.

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
Allah will not show mercy to a person who does not show mercy to other people.
[Bukhari]
Allah is only merciful with those who show mercy to others.
[Bukhari]
Mercy is only removed from the one who is destined for wretchedness.
[Bukhari]
Be merciful to those in the earth, so the One above the heavens will be merciful to you.
[At-Tabarani and Al-Hakim with a Sahih chain]

May Allah have mercy on us. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Our Trash

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Trash is not a fun subject but it is a serious issue. Most people don't think about trash because some men come and take it all away, but if you have to live with your garbage for a month, you will realize how much garbage we humans produce that we are actually endangering our environment and ultimately ourselves.

The earth is not getting any bigger. So where do you suppose all the trash go? Some people already are living on reclaimed garbage dump or next to garbage locations, and are drowned by flies and stinking odor. You might not have this problem but it will sooner or later be in your backyard, front yard and side yard.

You have to seriously evaluate this. A household of 4 people should not average more than 1/2 regular size grocery bag of garbage per day. If you have more than this, you probably are wasting and doing something wrong.
وَكُلُوا۟ وَٱشْرَبُوا۟ وَلَا تُسْرِفُوٓا۟ ۚ إِنَّهُۥ لَا يُحِبُّ ٱلْمُسْرِفِينَ ﴿٣١

...And eat and drink but waste not by extravagance, certainly He (Allah) likes not Al-Musrifun (those who waste by extravagance).
[Qur'an A‘raf 7:31]
كُلُوا۟ مِن ثَمَرِهِۦٓ إِذَآ أَثْمَرَ وَءَاتُوا۟ حَقَّهُۥ يَوْمَ حَصَادِهِۦ ۖ وَلَا تُسْرِفُوٓا۟ ۚ إِنَّهُۥ لَا يُحِبُّ ٱلْمُسْرِفِينَ ﴿١٤١

...And waste not by extravagance. Verily, He likes not Al-Musrifun (those who waste by extravagance).
[Qur'an An‘aam 6:141]

When I look at the trash out there, disposables, plastic and paper products comprise much of the trash.

Use cloth napkins or kitchen towels instead of paper towels and tissue paper. Where were the days when you see men with a handkerchief in their pockets? You don't see that anymore. Use washables (like cups, plates) instead of disposables, even when you entertain a lot of guests. It will take more time to clean but it is worth it. You are helping saving the environment. Too much trash is a bigger problem than too much gray water.

Another type of trash is leftover food. This is sad when we remember those people who are starving to death. Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un. Next time you throw away leftovers, make sure you fast the next day so you will be more conscious about not cooking too much or storing too much food items that they went bad and end up in the garbage dumps.

Prepare food in sensible quantities that your family can finish at a single sitting -- leftovers will quickly become a liability. Cook less than normal. Remember it doesn't take much to fill up a third of the stomach. We should accustom ourselves to not eat to our fill or beyond our fill because this is not Sunnah and not healthy. Eating less than a full stomach, not only is it a form of worship because we are following the Sunnah of Allah's Messenger, Allah bless him and grant him peace, we also will find our body more healthy, feel lighter and so easier to do more worship, like waking up at night to pray tahajjud. A believer don't eat based on desires and gluttony.

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
No human ever filled a vessel worse than the stomach. Sufficient for any son of Adam are some morsels to keep his back straight. But if it must be, then one third for his food, one third for his drink and one third for his breath.
[Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa’i, Ibn Majah]
The believer eats with one stomach while the kafir eats with seven stomachs.
[Bukhari and Muslim]

Below are more tips to help you reduce your trash.

1) Think about whether you really need that item before you buy it. Can you make do with something you already have? The more you buy, the more trash you will create, so if you can make the items you already own do double duty, you will create less trash in the long run.

2) Do not buy overpackaged products

Don't buy things packaged in individual serving sizes. Buy one larger bottle instead of four or eight smaller ones.

Buy one larger container instead of many smaller ones. Since you are paying for less packaging and shipping, you may also pay less by buying in bulk.

Ask your butcher to wrap your meat in peach paper only, then attach the price on top to keep the paper folded. Peach paper is a strong, water and oil proof meat wrapping paper normally used to split stages of meat inside a styrofoam tray. It is available in rolls or in sheet.

Buy fresh, unpacked, fruits and vegetables.

Buy grains, pasta and dried fruit in bulk.

Look at whether the package is recyclable in your area before you buy

3) Use your own bags when you go grocery shopping. Both paper and plastic bags do the environment little good.

Bring a canvas bag with you to the store.

Ask that store clerks not bag items that have their own handles (milk, bottled laundry detergent) or already have bags (produce) or packages (cereal). Often, the package an item comes in is just as convenient as putting that package in another bag.

Ask for no bags if you only bought items that you can easily carry or if the items are going straight from cart to car to kitchen.

Pack your purchases yourself. You can pack them your own way and save time and bags.

If you cannot avoid getting a plastic bag from the store re use it as a trash bag for the bathroom, bedroom or kid's room.

4) Go Paperless! Paper constitutes about 30% of average American's garbage.

Don't print things if you can see them on screen.

Receive and process bank statements, pay stubs, bills, and many other documents entirely electronically.

Avoid collecting brochures and flyers. Were you going to read them, anyway?

Use reusable gift bags. You can even make your own out of fabric

5) Stop your junk mail. A few phone calls can work wonders. It will save you time, clutter, and quite possibly money, too.

6) Purchase used products from garage sales, classified ads, or anywhere else they are available. You'll save money and reduce the demand for new products. Buying used is a direct form of recycling.

7) Choose to reuse.

Use fabric napkins instead of paper napkins or paper towels. Find two or three per member of your family (hint: thrift stores and garage sales are a great source). If they don't all match and they're not too dirty, family members can use them for more than one meal.

Pack a waste-free lunch. Use a lunchbox, not a paper bag.

Use reusable food containers instead of plastic bags or prepackaged drinks, both in your lunch box and at home. If you do use plastic zipper bags for food storage, you can wash and reuse them several times. Don't reuse bags that contained meat.

Avoid using paper plates, paper or plastic tablecloths, and plastic, disposable flatware.

Use a washcloth instead of a disposable face wipe.

Use fabric, not paper, towels, in the kitchen and bathroom.

Clean with terry towels instead of paper towels or wipes.

Some cloth diapers have evolved. Use cloth diapers, at least when you are at home. Wash the diapers instead of throwing them away.

8) Use less.
Buy only as much of something as you know you can use before it spoils. This may mean a one-week supply of perishable foods.

Cut dryer sheets, paper towels, tissues, and other things into smaller pieces if you do not need the whole thing.

Empty the trash without replacing the liner, unless the liner is heavily soiled. Separating out especially messy trash, such as vegetable scraps for compost, will keep liners usable for longer. Reuse grocery bags for trash can liners wherever possible.

Use only as much soap and detergent as you really need. Open your washer during the cycle. If the water feels slippery, and (in a top-loader) looks sudsy, try cutting back just a bit on the amount of detergent you use, regardless of what the cup says. See how little shampoo and dish soap you really need, too. Many products are very concentrated and, past a certain point, more soap does not mean cleaner.

Cook at home. Raw ingredients often come with less packaging than prepared, boxed foods.

9) Compost and mulch your garden with what you grow there. It will cut down your yard and vegetable waste tremendously (often around 15% of the waste that households produce and it will improve your soil and your garden without the use of chemical fertilizer. If you can use mostly materials you were producing anyway, such as grass clippings and fallen leaves, you will also save many trips to the nursery or hardware store to buy mulch and soil.

10) Borrow, lend, rent, and share. If you and your neighbor both do your own gardening, do you each need your own lawnmower? Could you rent a tiller (or pickup truck) for the one week in spring when you really need it?

11) Maintain and repair instead of replacing. Don't throw out your vacuum cleaner if it isn't picking up. Check the bag and the belt and make sure the hoses are free of clogs.

12) Buy for durability. Whenever possible, choose a product that you will use for a long time and be able to maintain and repair should it be necessary. It may cost a bit more up front, but it will save waste and money in the long run.
Durability goes for style and fashion, too. It's not always possible to tell before buying something how soon it will be hopelessly out of date, but it is usually possible to buy simple, classic styles that you like and can wear or display in your home for a long time.

13) One useful strategy is to try to reduce the weight, volume, and odor of the trash that you generate. Choose cans over bottles, and reusable containers over both.

14) Separate recyclable items so it is easy for those who collect them, or you can take them to recycle centers yourself.

15) Do not burn things -- the fumes can be toxic.

16) Use waste container with a tight-fitting lid, and secure it so it doesn't topple over and invite flies and rodents.

17) Most importantly of all, don't be a litter bug. Leaving no trash is much easier if you don't let it hit the ground in the first place!

Don't worry if you are alone in this. We are not expected to save the world alone, but we can do something to save our own souls, by showing our gratitude to Allah for the environment He created for us. And that is by doing the best you can, taking every means you can, to protect it and not waste it.

May Allah give us tawfiq (success). Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Sunday, June 24, 2012

Motherhood

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said that the best of women are four: Maryam binti 'Imran, Khadijah binti Khuwaylid, Fatimah binti Muhammad Rasullullah and Asiya, the wife of Fir'aun (Pharoah of Egypt).

It is not a coincidence that they were all mothers. Mariam was the mother of Prophet Isa alayhissalam; Khadijah was the mother of five of the Prophet's children, one of the them was Fatimah, the mother of Hasan and Hussain who will be leaders of the youth in Paradise (as mentioned in the hadith); Asiya was the foster mother of Prophet Musa alayhissalam. May Allah be pleased with all of them.

What we can glean from this fact is that the nurturing that a pious woman gives her child, can elevate her to the highest level.

Taking care of our family is a great service for Allah and the reward is tremendous. Looking after and raising our children is the best devotion to Allah. We should make our intention now that we want to raise our children to be people of taqwa, people who conform to the Divine and Sacred Laws and avoid haram (prohibitions). Once we do that, every single act we do, the reward is incredible.

What is in the heart of Islam is combating our ego (nafs). You have to lower your nafs when you are dealing with your children. And it is an endless effort just to keep basic things in order (almost a 24/7 job, it didn't go away even when you were able to catch a sleep). And if you don't have a compassionate and merciful spouse, you have to step on your ego even more. But, without realizing it, you learn to control your anger and you teach your nafs to be patient and ignore or subdue your own desires.

So, if you feel distracted and have no time to yourself to do extra worship while you see young people have memorized Qur'an and are advanced in their knowledge, don't feel that you are missing out or falling behind. Don’t underestimate the spiritual benefits of getting distracted by your children when you are trying to pray, read Qur'an, study or do dhikr. The moment the distraction is lessened, the fruits will start coming, and you will continue to harvest the fruits of your relatively short labor long after you are gone, inshaAllah.

Article on Motherhood By Shaykh Nuh Ha Mim Keller (may Allah preserve him and increase him)

When she has her first baby, she must manage for another life even more dependent on her personal sacrifices. By the second, third, or fourth child, her days and nights belong almost entirely to others. Whether she has a spiritual path or not, such a mother can seldom resist a glance at the past, when there were more prayers, more meanings, more spiritual company, and more serenity. When Allah opens her understanding, she will see that she is engaged in one of the highest forms of worship, that of producing new believers who love and worship Allah. She is effectively worshipping Allah for as many lifetimes she has children, for the reward of every spiritual work her children do will be hers, without this diminishing anything of their own rewards: every ablution, every prayer, every Ramadan, every hajj, and even the works her children will in turn pass on to their offspring, and, so on till the end of time. Even if her children do not turn out as she wishes, she shall be requited in paradise forever according to her intention in raising them, which was that they should be godly.

Aside from the tremendous reward, within the path itself it is noticeable that many of those who benefit most from khalwa or ‘solitary retreat of dhikr’ are women who have raised children. With only a little daily dhikr and worship over the years, but much toil and sacrifice for others, they surpass many a younger person who has had more free time, effort, and ‘spiritual works.’ What they find is greater because their state with Allah is greater; namely, the awe, hope, and love of the Divine they have realized by years of sincerity to Him.

May Allah grant us righteous children and offspring and help us raise our children to be His best servants. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Saturday, June 23, 2012

In The Court Of Divine Justice

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

It maybe that people don't know what bad things you are doing or sins you are committing in private, or that you are insincere in your worship and doing good (e.g. showing off, wanting fame or praises, to accumulate wealth or to gain some other worldly benefit), but Allah is Ar-Raqib, the Watchful, Who observes all that you do.

Allah Almighty is closer to you than your jugular vein, and even if you can't see Him, know that He sees you.

So be mindful of Allah in everything that you do. They are being recorded.
وَلَقَدْ خَلَقْنَا ٱلْإِنسَـٰنَ وَنَعْلَمُ مَا تُوَسْوِسُ بِهِۦ نَفْسُهُۥ ۖ وَنَحْنُ أَقْرَبُ إِلَيْهِ مِنْ حَبْلِ ٱلْوَرِيدِ ﴿١٦﴾ إِذْ يَتَلَقَّى ٱلْمُتَلَقِّيَانِ عَنِ ٱلْيَمِينِ وَعَنِ ٱلشِّمَالِ قَعِيدٌ ﴿١٧﴾ مَّا يَلْفِظُ مِن قَوْلٍ إِلَّا لَدَيْهِ رَقِيبٌ عَتِيدٌ ﴿١٨

And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein (16) When the two receivers receive, seated on the right and on the left. (17) Man does not utter any word except that with him is an observer prepared [to record]. (18)
[Qur'an Qaf 50:16-18]

You might get away with your bad in this world, but on the Day of Judgment, your limbs will testify against you.
وَيَوْمَ يُحْشَرُ أَعْدَآءُ ٱللَّـهِ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِ فَهُمْ يُوزَعُونَ ﴿١٩﴾ حَتَّىٰٓ إِذَا مَا جَآءُوهَا شَهِدَ عَلَيْهِمْ سَمْعُهُمْ وَأَبْصَـٰرُهُمْ وَجُلُودُهُم بِمَا كَانُوا۟ يَعْمَلُونَ ﴿٢٠
وَقَالُوا۟ لِجُلُودِهِمْ لِمَ شَهِدتُّمْ عَلَيْنَا ۖ قَالُوٓا۟ أَنطَقَنَا ٱللَّـهُ ٱلَّذِىٓ أَنطَقَ كُلَّ شَىْءٍ وَهُوَ خَلَقَكُمْ أَوَّلَ مَرَّةٍ وَإِلَيْهِ تُرْجَعُونَ ﴿٢١﴾ وَمَا كُنتُمْ تَسْتَتِرُونَ أَن يَشْهَدَ عَلَيْكُمْ سَمْعُكُمْ وَلَآ أَبْصَـٰرُكُمْ وَلَا جُلُودُكُمْ وَلَـٰكِن ظَنَنتُمْ أَنَّ ٱللَّـهَ لَا يَعْلَمُ كَثِيرًا مِّمَّا تَعْمَلُونَ ﴿٢٢﴾ وَذَٰلِكُمْ ظَنُّكُمُ ٱلَّذِى ظَنَنتُم بِرَبِّكُمْ أَرْدَىٰكُمْ فَأَصْبَحْتُم مِّنَ ٱلْخَـٰسِرِينَ ﴿٢٣﴾

And [mention, O Muhammad], the Day when the enemies of Allah will be gathered to the Fire while they are [driven] assembled in rows, (19) Until, when they reach it, their hearing and their eyes and their skins will testify against them of what they used to do. (20) And they will say to their skins, "Why have you testified against us?" They will say, "We were made to speak by Allah, who has made everything speak; and He created you the first time, and to Him you are returned. (21) And you were not covering yourselves, lest your hearing testify against you or your sight or your skins, but you assumed that Allah does not know much of what you do. (22) And that was your assumption which you assumed about your Lord. It has brought you to ruin, and you have become among the losers." (23)
[Qur'an Fussilat 41:19-23]
يَوْمَ تَشْهَدُ عَلَيْهِمْ أَلْسِنَتُهُمْ وَأَيْدِيهِمْ وَأَرْجُلُهُم بِمَا كَانُوا۟ يَعْمَلُونَ ﴿٢٤

On a Day when their tongues, their hands and their feet will bear witness against them as to what they used to do. (24)
[Qur'an An-Nur 24:24]

You won't be able to lie anymore for a seal will be placed over your mouth.

ٱلْيَوْمَ نَخْتِمُ عَلَىٰٓ أَفْوَٰهِهِمْ وَتُكَلِّمُنَآ أَيْدِيهِمْ وَتَشْهَدُ أَرْجُلُهُم بِمَا كَانُوا۟ يَكْسِبُونَ ﴿٦٥

That Day, We will seal over their mouths, and their hands will speak to Us, and their feet will testify about what they used to earn. (65)
[Qur'an Ya-Sin 36:65]

May Allah Almighty help us be vigilant over our actions and make us among the Muttaqin (Godfearing). Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Friday, June 22, 2012

Are You Happy When Your Mother Says NO?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

How to be happy?

Happiness is relative and not determined by objective factors, but by how you feel inside.

You probably were happier when you were making $1000 a month as a part-time teaching assistant in college then than now making $150,000 as a computer engineer of a company, where you are putting 13-15 hours a day at work and on your computer again at home, until 2 in the morning, trying to complete your work or meet a project deadline. Although you may have a much higher purchasing power, that you can buy a lot more of things, but what kind of life is that? How can you be happy?

Likewise, you probably be happier making $300 a month in Cairo where your neighbors are making $150 a month, than making $150,000 a year in Beverly Hills where your neighbors are making much more, double, triple or to the millions.

Happiness is also relative to your expectations.

People often overestimate the misery they will experience after a marital breakup, losing a job or a promotion, contracting an illness, or when your mother says NO to you for wanting to marry someone you like.

People also overestimate the pleasure they will get from graduating from high school or law school or having a PhD, buying a nice car, getting a promotion, buying a house or moving to the coast with ocean and mountain views, being accepted to a prestigious college or college program, getting married to someone you love, having a baby boy, your ball team winning, and so on.

So, lower your expectations about the pleasure you'll get from things of this world. Things of this dunya are always accompanied with problems, worry and bitterness even though they appear outwardly to be pleasurable.

Avoid consumerism. The things you own do come to own you. Consumerism leads to unhappiness. We don't need much to be happy. Unfortunately, people have been programmed from birth to see through the lens of consumerism. One way to start deprogramming is to view this documentary, Century Of The Self, and then sell or give away many of your possessions and, more importantly, drastically change your purchasing patterns.

Develop the habit of gratitude. First and foremost, be thankful to Allah for everything--for the gift of life and for maintaining and sustaining you.
وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ ۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِى لَشَدِيدٌ ﴿٧

And [remember] when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you are grateful, I will surely increase you [in favor]; but if you deny, indeed, My punishment is severe.' " [Qur'an Ibrahim 14:7]

Everything in your life is a blessing--good or bad. Even the little or big effort you have put to attain what you have attained was a blessing from Allah. Spend time reflecting on these blessings throughout the day. And at the end of each day, write down 10 things you are grateful for: the roof over your head, the blessing of safety, the blessing of health, the taste of cheesecake, the taste of cold sugar cane juice or the breeze of cool air in the hot summer, the ability to go to the bathroom, having a brother or sister, the sickness, the divorce, losing your iphone...and so on. I am sure you can list more than 10 and if you want to do so, go right ahead, and for each one, say La illaha illallah wa Allahu Akbar or SubhanAllah or send blessings to the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, or any dhikr of Allah. It may sound childish, but it works.

Find your purpose and live it. Islam gives you a sense of meaning and purpose. Finding motivating purpose is crucial to happiness. You will find the happiest person are those who have relationship with Allah. They are happy even when they don't have the things that you want. And they are happier than you will ever be even when you get the things that you want. This is because Allah creates happiness in the heart of the servant when he attaches his heart to Allah. We think otherwise because we are distracted by dunya, other people, shaytan and our lusts, desires and ego (nafs).

Happiness will not come from reading this article or any other articles you find on the internet. Happiness will come when you do the things that are recommended. Remember knowledge is only a small part of our life. The biggest part is action, which include constantly turning to Allah in repentance and du'a.

May Allah grant us happiness in this life and the next and save us from the punishment of the Hellfire. Ameen,

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

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Choose Your Friends Carefully

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

It is extremely important to choose and have good companions. Such a companion will remind you of Allah and help you follow the straight path, the path of those upon whom Allah has bestowed favor, not of those who have evoked His anger or of those who are astray.

Allah calls upon the believer to fear Him and tells us how we can accomplish that--by being with the truthful--those who are true in what they say and what they do.
يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ ٱتَّقُوا۟ ٱللَّـهَ وَكُونُوا۟ مَعَ ٱلصَّـٰدِقِينَ ﴿١١٩

O you who believe, fear Allah and be with those who are true (in words and deeds).
[Qur'an At-Tawba 9:119]

The formula is simple. If your friends are of the righteous, they will pull you towards what is good and encourage you to do what is pleasing to Allah, that which will take you to Paradise, by the Mercy of Allah. If your friends are of those who are heedless of Allah, they will pull you towards what is bad and encourage you to do what is pleasing to Shaytan, that which can lead you to the Hellfire.

If we don't choose our companions right, we will be sorry in the Day of Judgment. Allah Almighty says,

وَيَوْمَ يَعَضُّ ٱلظَّالِمُ عَلَىٰ يَدَيْهِ يَقُولُ يَـٰلَيْتَنِى ٱتَّخَذْتُ مَعَ ٱلرَّسُولِ سَبِيلًا ﴿٢٧﴾ يَـٰوَيْلَتَىٰ لَيْتَنِى لَمْ أَتَّخِذْ فُلَانًا خَلِيلًا ﴿٢٨﴾ لَّقَدْ أَضَلَّنِى عَنِ ٱلذِّكْرِ بَعْدَ إِذْ جَآءَنِى ۗ وَكَانَ ٱلشَّيْطَـٰنُ لِلْإِنسَـٰنِ خَذُولًا ﴿٢٩

And the Day the wrongdoer will bite on his hands [in regret] he will say, "Oh, I wish I had taken with the Messenger a way. (27) Oh, woe to me! I wish I had not taken that one as a friend. (28) He led me away from the remembrance after it had come to me. And ever is Satan, to man, a deserter."
(29) [Qur'an Al-Furqan 25:27-29]
وَمَن يَعْشُ عَن ذِكْرِ ٱلرَّحْمَـٰنِ نُقَيِّضْ لَهُۥ شَيْطَـٰنًا فَهُوَ لَهُۥ قَرِينٌ ﴿٣٦﴾ وَإِنَّهُمْ لَيَصُدُّونَهُمْ عَنِ ٱلسَّبِيلِ وَيَحْسَبُونَ أَنَّهُم مُّهْتَدُونَ ﴿٣٧﴾ حَتَّىٰٓ إِذَا جَآءَنَا قَالَ يَـٰلَيْتَ بَيْنِى وَبَيْنَكَ بُعْدَ ٱلْمَشْرِقَيْنِ فَبِئْسَ ٱلْقَرِينُ ﴿٣٨﴾ وَلَن يَنفَعَكُمُ ٱلْيَوْمَ إِذ ظَّلَمْتُمْ أَنَّكُمْ فِى ٱلْعَذَابِ مُشْتَرِكُونَ ﴿٣٩

And whoever is blinded from remembrance of the Most Merciful - We appoint for him a devil, and he is to him a companion. (36) And indeed, the devils avert them from the way [of guidance] while they think that they are [rightly] guided (37) Until, when he comes to Us [at Judgement], he says [to his companion], "Oh, I wish there was between me and you the distance between the east and west - how wretched a companion." (38) And never will it benefit you that Day, when you have wronged, that you are [all] sharing in the punishment. (39)
[Qur'an Az-Zuhruf 43:36-39]

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, explained to us this matter of good companionship. He, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:

A person is upon the religion of his khaleel (close friend), so look to whom you befriend.
[Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi]

Do not keep company except with a believer, and do not feed except a person who has taqwa (fear of Allah).
[Abu Dawood, Tirmidhi]

So, choose your friends and pay attention who your children are friends with.

Allah Almighty says,

يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ قُوٓا۟ أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا وَقُودُهَا ٱلنَّاسُ وَٱلْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَـٰٓئِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌ شِدَادٌ لَّا يَعْصُونَ ٱللَّـهَ مَآ أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ ﴿٦

O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, over which are [appointed] angels, harsh and severe; they do not disobey Allah in what He commands them but do what they are commanded.
[Qur'an At-Tahrim 66:6]

May Allah grant us righteous companions. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Paradise and Hell

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Paradise and Hell have their own degrees and levels.

The hypocrites will be in the lowest level of Hell, as Allah Almighty says:
إِنَّ ٱلْمُنَـٰفِقِينَ فِى ٱلدَّرْكِ ٱلْأَسْفَلِ مِنَ ٱلنَّارِ وَلَن تَجِدَ لَهُمْ نَصِيرًا ﴿١٤٥﴾ إِلَّا ٱلَّذِينَ تَابُوا۟ وَأَصْلَحُوا۟ وَٱعْتَصَمُوا۟ بِٱللَّـهِ وَأَخْلَصُوا۟ دِينَهُمْ لِلَّـهِ فَأُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ مَعَ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ ۖ وَسَوْفَ يُؤْتِ ٱللَّـهُ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ أَجْرًا عَظِيمًا ﴿١٤٦

Indeed, the hypocrites will be in the lowest depths of the Fire - and never will you find for them a helper - (145) Except for those who repent, correct themselves, hold fast to Allah, and are sincere in their religion for Allah, for those will be with the believers. And Allah is going to give the believers a great reward.
[Qur'an An-Nisa’ 4:145-146]

Narrated ‘Abdullah bin ‘Amr that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
Whoever has (the following) four characters will be a hypocrite, and whoever has one of the following four characteristics will have one characteristic of hypocrisy until he gives it up. These are: (1 ) Whenever he talks, he tells a lie; (2) whenever he makes a promise, he breaks it; (3) whenever he makes a covenant he proves treacherous; (4) and whenever he quarrels, he behaves imprudently in an evil insulting manner.
[Bukhari]

Allah Almighty says:
إِنَّ اللَّـهَ جَامِعُ الْمُنَافِقِينَ وَالْكَافِرِينَ فِي جَهَنَّمَ جَمِيعًا ....

...Indeed Allah will gather the hypocrites and disbelievers in Hell all together.
[Qur'an An-Nisa 4:140]

Allah Almighty says,
إِنَّ جَهَنَّمَ كَانَتْ مِرْصَادًا ﴿٢١﴾ لِّلطَّـٰغِينَ مَـَٔابًا ﴿٢٢﴾ لَّـٰبِثِينَ فِيهَآ أَحْقَابًا ﴿٢٣﴾ لَّا يَذُوقُونَ فِيهَا بَرْدًا وَلَا شَرَابًا ﴿٢٤﴾ إِلَّا حَمِيمًا وَغَسَّاقًا ﴿٢٥﴾ جَزَآءً وِفَاقًا ﴿٢٦﴾ إِنَّهُمْ كَانُوا۟ لَا يَرْجُونَ حِسَابًا ﴿٢٧﴾ وَكَذَّبُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِنَا كِذَّابًا ﴿٢٨﴾ وَكُلَّ شَىْءٍ أَحْصَيْنَـٰهُ كِتَـٰبًا ﴿٢٩﴾ فَذُوقُوا۟ فَلَن نَّزِيدَكُمْ إِلَّا عَذَابًا ﴿٣٠﴾

Indeed, Hell has been lying in wait (21) For the transgressors, a place of return, (22) In which they will remain for ages [unending]. (23) They will not taste therein [any] coolness or drink (24) Except scalding water and [foul] purulence - (25) An appropriate recompense. (26) Indeed, they were not expecting an account (27) And denied Our verses with [emphatic] denial. (28) But all things We have enumerated in writing. (29) "So taste [the penalty], and never will We increase you except in torment." (30)
[Qur'an Naba’ 78:21-30].

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: The least severely punished of the people of Hell will be a man who has two shoes and shoelaces of Fire – according to another version: two live coals will be placed on the soles of his feet – because of which his brains will boil as a pot boils. He will not think that anyone is being punished more severely than him, but he will be the one who is punished most lightly. [Bukhari and Muslim]

The person is named specifically in a report narrated by Muslim, where it says that this is Abu Talib, the paternal uncle of the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, for whom Allah will reduce the punishment because of the role he played in protecting Islam and giving support to the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace.

We ask Allah to protect us from the torment and punishment of Hell. Nothing of this world is worth to be in Hell for, even for a slight moment. May Allah have mercy on us.

Whoever dies believing in the Oneness of Allah and believing in His Messenger, Allah bless him and grant him peace, is from the People of Paradise. This person might run a detour to Hell and might stay there for a long time for his sins but his eventual abode is Paradise.

Allah Almighty says:

إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ قَالُوا۟ رَبُّنَا ٱللَّـهُ ثُمَّ ٱسْتَقَـٰمُوا۟ تَتَنَزَّلُ عَلَيْهِمُ ٱلْمَلَـٰٓئِكَةُ أَلَّا تَخَافُوا۟ وَلَا تَحْزَنُوا۟ وَأَبْشِرُوا۟ بِٱلْجَنَّةِ ٱلَّتِى كُنتُمْ تُوعَدُونَ ﴿٣٠﴾ نَحْنُ أَوْلِيَآؤُكُمْ فِى ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَا وَفِى ٱلْـَٔاخِرَةِ ۖ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَشْتَهِىٓ أَنفُسُكُمْ وَلَكُمْ فِيهَا مَا تَدَّعُونَ ﴿٣١﴾ نُزُلًا مِّنْ غَفُورٍ رَّحِيمٍ

Indeed, those who have said, "Our Lord is Allah " and then remained on a right course - the angels will descend upon them, [saying], "Do not fear and do not grieve but receive good tidings of Paradise, which you were promised. (30) We [angels] were your allies in worldly life and [are so] in the Hereafter. And you will have therein whatever your souls desire, and you will have therein whatever you request [or wish] (31) As accommodation from a [Lord who is] Forgiving and Merciful." (32)
[Qur'an Fussilat 41:30-32]

If a person dies having won the pleasure of Allah, then he will have the glad tidings of all that is good after that. When he enters Paradise he will have delights and pleasures such as no eye has seen, no ear has heard and it has not entered the mind of any man. Even the person who is the lowest in status in Paradise will enjoy something like ten times the joys of this world.

Abdullah ibn Mas’ood said that the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
‘I know who will be the last person to be brought out of Hell and the last person to enter Paradise. It will be a man who will come out of Hell crawling. Allah will say to him, "Go and enter Paradise." So he will go there and think that it is full, so he will come back and say, "O Lord, I found it full." Allah will say to him a second time, "Go and enter Paradise." So he will go there and think that it is full, so he will come back and say, "O Lord, I found it full." Allah will say to him, "Go and enter Paradise, for there you will have something like the world and ten times more." The man will say, "Are You making fun of me (or are You laughing at me), and You are the King of all?"’ - and I saw the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, smiling so broadly that his back teeth could be seen. He used to say, ‘That is the person who is lowest in status in Paradise.’
[Agreed upon; this version is reported by Muslim]

The number of degrees and levels of Paradise is equal to the number of verses in the Qur’an, based on the hadith of Abdullah ibn Amr, who said that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
It will be said to the companion of the Qur’an: ‘Recite and rise in status as you used to recite in the world, and your position will be at the last verse you recite.’
[Abu Dawood and Tirmidhi]

Narrated Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, said: The Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
In Paradise there are one hundred degrees which Allah has prepared for those who strive in jihad for the sake of Allah. The distance between each two degrees is like the distance between the heavens and the earth.
[Bukhari]

Narrated that Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, said that the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
The first group will enter Paradise looking like the moon on the night when it is full, and those who follow them will be like the brightest shining star in the sky. Their hearts will be as one, and there will be no hatred or jealousy among them. Each man will have two wives from among al-hoor al-‘iyn, the marrow of whose calves can be seen from beneath the bone and flesh.
[Bukhari and Muslim]

Narrated from Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri that the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
The lowest of the people of Paradise in status will be a man whose face Allah will turn away from the Fire towards Paradise, and make a shady tree appear before him. … Then he will enter his house and his two wives from among al-hoor al-‘iyn will enter after him. They will say: ‘Praise be to Allah Who has created you for us and us for you.’ And he will say: ‘No one has been given the like of that which I have been given.’
[Muslim]

Narrated Abu Sa’eed al-Khudri, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
The people of Paradise will be able to see the people in the apartments above them as you see the shining stars on the horizon in the east and the west, because of the differences in their status. They said: “O Messenger of Allah, is that the status of the Prophets which no one else will reach besides them?” He said: “No, by the One in Whose hand is my soul, they are men who had faith in Allah and believed in the Messengers.”
[Bukhari and Muslim]

Narrated Abu Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
"Shall I not tell you of something by means of which Allah erases sins and raises you in status?" They said: “Yes, O Messenger of Allah.” He said: “Doing wudoo’ (ablution) well even when it is difficult, taking many steps to the mosques and waiting for prayer after prayer. That is (equivalent) to guarding the frontier.”
[Muslim]

So work on your precious iman (faith) and protect it by shielding it with the deeds of Islam and stay away from disobedience and those things that lead to disobedience. It is hard work but it is the highest paying job you can never ever imagine. May Allah give us tawfiq.

Set your eyes on the highest Paradise, al-Firdaus.

Narrated that Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, said that the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
...When you ask of Allah, ask Him for al-Firdaus, for it is in the middle of Paradise and is the highest part of Paradise, and above it is the Throne of the Most Merciful, and from it spring forth the rivers of Paradise.
[Bukhari and Muslim]

May Allah grant us an excellent ending at the highest of iman and resurrect us with His beloved Messenger, sallallahu alayhi wassallam, and enter us into the highest Jannah, Al-Firdaus, with him, sallallahu alayhi wassallam. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

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Saturday, June 16, 2012

Shouldn't I Love To Be A Thankful Slave?

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

When you wake up in the morning and see yourself in the mirror, does it not motivate you to thank Allah that you are still alive, and eyes to see yourself in the mirror, and legs to walk to the shower, and nose to smell your new expensive brand of soap, and hands to pick up the shampoo?

Remember, there are people who woke up on their hospital beds, hooked to the ivy, can't move, waiting for the doctor to give them the bad news and don't care to see themselves in the mirror anymore.

This is the reality of life. Every soul shall taste death.

Allah says,
كُلُّ نَفْسٍ ذَائِقَةُ الْمَوْتِ ۗ وَإِنَّمَا تُوَفَّوْنَ أُجُورَكُمْ يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ ۖ فَمَن زُحْزِحَ عَنِ النَّارِ وَأُدْخِلَ الْجَنَّةَ فَقَدْ فَازَ ۗ وَمَا الْحَيَاةُ الدُّنْيَا إِلَّا مَتَاعُ الْغُرُورِ ﴿١٨٥﴾ لَتُبْلَوُنَّ فِي أَمْوَالِكُمْ وَأَنفُسِكُمْ وَلَتَسْمَعُنَّ مِنَ الَّذِينَ أُوتُوا الْكِتَابَ مِن قَبْلِكُمْ وَمِنَ الَّذِينَ أَشْرَكُوا أَذًى كَثِيرًا ۚ وَإِن تَصْبِرُوا وَتَتَّقُوا فَإِنَّ ذَٰلِكَ مِنْ عَزْمِ الْأُمُورِ ﴿١٨٦

Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] compensation on the Day of Resurrection. So he who is drawn away from the Fire and admitted to Paradise has attained [his desire]. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion. (185) You will surely be tested in your possessions and in yourselves. And you will surely hear from those who were given the Scripture before you and from those who associate others with Allah much abuse. But if you are patient and fear Allah - indeed, that is of the matters [worthy] of determination. (186)
[Qur'an AleImran 3:185-186]

If you realize that this life is fleeting, it should motivate you to thank Allah Almighty. The fact that Allah has given you another moment of life, with perfect form and good health and working senses and bodily functions, you have much to thank for.

So, what are you doing rushing for the dunya and don't even think to offer a sunnah (or dhuha) prayer before you go to work or to school?

We see reality as it is and behold Allah and seek Allah before we seek from anything else.

Look at your body. If it wasn't for the bones in our body, we would be like jelly fish--unattractive, unattached! Our very own body is a tremendous blessing from Allah.

Allah says,
ثُمَّ لَتُسْـَٔلُنَّ يَوْمَئِذٍ عَنِ ٱلنَّعِيمِ

Then you will be asked on that Day about your blessings.
[Qur'an at-Takathur 102:8]

Verily, the first thing the slave is asked about on the Day of Judgment is of blessings. He will say to him, "Did we not make your body healthy and quench your thirst with cold water.
(Tirmidhi)

وَءَاتَىٰكُم مِّن كُلِّ مَا سَأَلْتُمُوهُ ۚ وَإِن تَعُدُّوا۟ نِعْمَتَ ٱللَّـهِ لَا تُحْصُوهَآ ۗ إِنَّ ٱلْإِنسَـٰنَ لَظَلُومٌ كَفَّارٌ

And He gave you from all you asked of Him. And if you should count the favor of Allah, you could not enumerate them. Indeed, mankind is [generally] most unjust and ungrateful.
[Qur'an Ibrahim 14:34]

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
Every person's bones have a charity due to them each day that the sun rises: doing justice between two people is charity; assisting a man to mount his animal, or lifting up his belongings onto it is charity; a good word is charity; every step you take towards the prayer is charity, and removing the harmful from pathways is charity.
[Bukhari and Muslim]

There is no bone, or vein, or nerve except that on it is the mark of Allah's creation, Mighty and Majestic; so it is incumbent on the slave to thank Allah for that, and praise him for making him in a perfect form.
[Ibn Rajab]

Allah says,
قُلْ هُوَ ٱلَّذِىٓ أَنشَأَكُمْ وَجَعَلَ لَكُمُ ٱلسَّمْعَ وَٱلْأَبْصَـٰرَ وَٱلْأَفْـِٔدَةَ ۖ قَلِيلًا مَّا تَشْكُرُونَ

Say, "It is He who has produced you and made for you hearing and vision and hearts; little are you grateful."
[(Qur'an Al-Mulk 67:23]

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to recite long prayers at night, as Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) reported: “The Prophet used to offer prayer at night (for such a long time) that his feet used to crack. I said, "O Allah's Apostle! Why do you do it since Allah has forgiven you your faults of the past and those to follow?" He said: “Shouldn't I love to be a thankful slave (of Allah)?” [Bukhari]

The greatest gratitude comes from having this view of Allah. Make much remembrance of Allah. Keep our tongues moist with remembrance of Allah. The greatest remembrance of Allah is the Qur'an itself.

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, draws our attention to an important issue, that we should appreciate what people do for us by thanking them. He said:
Anyone who doesn’t thank people has not thanked Allah.
[Abu-Dawud and Tirmidhi]

One of the Beautiful Attributes of Allah is Ash-Shakur meaning that Allah is the most appreciative. So we should be grateful to the one who endows us with health, family, wealth, peace and security, a nurturing environment, and so on. By recognizing Allah's bounties, our hearts will find contentment and peace.

May Allah make us among His grateful servants. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Friday, June 15, 2012

True And Intelligent Servant Of Allah

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

It has been told in the will of Luqman (Peace of Allah be upon him) that he, advising his son in his will, said:

“Ya Buneyya La Takununnad Deeku Akyas Minka Fainnahu Yunaadi Bil Ashaari Wa Anta Na’imun.”

“My son! Do not let the rooster be more intelligent than you are. It shouldn’t happen that he (i.e. the rooster) gets up at the last part of the night to make proclamations [for Tahajjud prayers and remembers his Lord] while you keep sleeping [in a deep sleep of heedlessness, carelessness, and ignorance].”

This reality is made clear in the following verses (of poetry):

“Laqad Hatafet Fi Junhil Laili Hamamatun
‘Ala Funanin Wahnun Wa Inni Na’imun

Kazabtu Wa Baitil Allahi Lau Kuntu ‘Aashiqan
Lama Sabaqatni Bil Buqa’il Hamaaimun

Wa Az’amu Anni Haa’imun Zu Sababatin
Lahu Bi Wa La Abki Wa Tabkil Bahaaimun.”

“At night, the dove sitting on the branch [of a tree] is calling on [to its Lord]
While I am in a deep sleep

By the Lord of the House of Allah (Ka’aba)! I am a liar! If I had been a true lover [of Allah]
Then the doves would not have won over me in weeping [in the pain of separation from my Beloved (Allah)!

Alas! I do not even wet my eyes [with tears] while claiming to love [my Beloved Lord!]
While the animals keep weeping [in their love for their Creator].”

My dear beloved son! Our purpose is that you should know what obedience and worship are.

Obedience and worship are to follow the Shari’ah (law) of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) then whether the commandments are for performing the righteous deeds or for restraining oneself from evil or whether [the commandments] are for following his words or deeds, in other words, whether you do something or not do something, whether you say something or not say something, all these must be in accordance with the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

If you say something then say it according to the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

If you keep silent then be silent according to the commandments of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

If you do something or do not do something then do it in accordance with the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him).

If you do something and you consider it an act of worship but you do not do it to obey the commandment of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) then this will not be counted as worship but instead will be counted as a sin even though it might be prayer or fasting.

Do you not know that if someone fasts on the [first] day of the two Eids (i.e. two foremost Islamic celebrations) or on the days of Hajj (pilgrimage) then this person will be committing sin? Even though it is fasting but since it’s not done in accordance with the commandment of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that’s why this person is being sinful.

Similarly, if someone performs prayers at a forbidden time (e.g. after Asr [late afternoon] prayer but before sunset or after Fajr [dawn] prayer but before sometime after sunrise, etc.) or at an illegally occupied place then he/she will be called Athim (sinner) and Fasiq (law breaker). Even though it apparently looks like [a legitimate act of] worship but since it was not done in accordance with the guidance of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), it is not correct.

If a husband has relations with his wife then it is not a sin even though it apparently looks bad. However, since it is done in accordance with the guidance of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) therefore it is Halal (permissible or within legal limits). Therefore, it is known [now] that worship is the second name (synonym) of obedience (i.e. worship means obedience).

Similarly, prayers and fasting are counted as worship when they are performed in accordance with the [Divine] guidelines. Therefore, my dear beloved son! All of your words and deeds should be in accordance with the commandments of Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). That is, whatever actions you perform and conversations you have should be in accordance with the Shari’ah (Divine law), because whatever the knowledge and actions of [God’s] creations, not in accordance with the Shari’ah (Divine law), are clearly misguided and keep them (i.e. creations/human beings primarily) away from the truth. This is the reason why Prophet Muhammad (May peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) abrogated all [religious] learning from the previous eras.

(excerpts from translated text of Majmu’a Rasail Imam Ghazali)

May Allah make us among His truthful servants. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Trophies Of This Life

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Umrah and Hajj are two special times for Muslims who yearn and long to look at the Ka'bah and pray in the Prophet's masjid. This is also the time when we leave everything behind and worship Allah.

Nowadays, we can hear and see more and more people, especially the young people, traveling to the holy land to perform hajj or umrah. Some have gone multiple times, some have made it a yearly occasion, and some made it a habit to go to umrah more than once a year.

While we rush and busy ourselves with our own worship of Allah, for those who have children, remember our responsibilities towards our children. We should also busy ourselves with our children--talk with them, play with them, eat with them, show our good examples and teach them Islam.

When young people decide to get married, they automatically ask Allah for that responsibility because they are bound to have children, whether they plan for it or not.

Parents' duty to their children is not just providing for their physical and emotional needs but also for their spiritual needs. This is a serious obligation that cannot be neglected and must be given priority over our supererogatory and voluntary worship.

Our children are our assets for the next life, that if they are pious and make du'a for us. Otherwise, they are just trophies of this life.

You can't go to umrah or hajj or pray or fast or give charity after you die. But if you leave a pious child and who then raise pious children (and who then raise pious children and this trend continues till the end of time), your child and their children (and continues on) will continue your good deeds and you will continue to reap the benefits even after you die till the end of time.

If you can go to umrah or hajj multiple times (or vacation for that matter) but neglect and can't afford to pay for qualified and good teachers to teach your children Qur'an and Islam (and teach you same for that matter), then you are doing something wrong and a great disservice to yourself.

One of the most important thing that we should teach our children from very young is praying and covering their nakedness. You cannot wait until they reach puberty to do this because chances are they will refuse and some children will rebel if you force them. If they don't pray and cover their nakedness (or they don't do this properly) after they reach puberty, they sin. If they sin, you sin because you didn't teach them properly when you are supposed to.

When your children reach the age of 7, you are obligated to command them to pray and cover their nakedness. This serves as a training. If you have done this correctly, by the time they reach puberty, they would have been accustomed to doing this and make your job easier to raise them to be pious.

Start your children to memorize Qur'an before they become of school age because when they start knowing how to read and write, they will start feeling what is already in their hearts--Allah.

We have to work smart in this life because our time here is limited. So we should focus on what benefit us most in the next life.

Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that Allah's Messenger, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
When a human being dies, all of his deeds are terminated except for three types: an ongoing sadaqah (charity), a knowledge (of Islam) from which others benefit, and a righteous child who makes du'a (supplication) for him.
[Muslim and others].

May Allah guide us and give us tawfiq. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

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Wednesday, June 13, 2012

The Awliya' (Friends of Allah)

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Allah Almighty chooses friends (allies) among His servants (the awliya') while some people choose to be His enemies. The friends of Allah reap the fruits of their servitude to Him in this world by enjoying His protection.

Allah Almighty says:
ٱللَّـهُ وَلِىُّ ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ يُخْرِجُهُم مِّنَ ٱلظُّلُمَـٰتِ إِلَى ٱلنُّورِ ۖ وَٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوٓا۟ أَوْلِيَآؤُهُمُ ٱلطَّـٰغُوتُ يُخْرِجُونَهُم مِّنَ ٱلنُّورِ إِلَى ٱلظُّلُمَـٰتِ ۗ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ أَصْحَـٰبُ ٱلنَّارِ ۖ هُمْ فِيهَا خَـٰلِدُونَ ﴿٢٥٧

Allah Almighty is the ally of those who believe. He brings them out from darknesses into the light. And those who disbelieve - their allies are Taghut. They take them out of the light into darknesses. Those are the companions of the Fire; they will abide eternally therein. (257)
[Qur'an 2:257]

Allah Almighty says:
أَلَآ إِنَّ أَوْلِيَآءَ ٱللَّـهِ لَا خَوْفٌ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلَا هُمْ يَحْزَنُونَ ﴿٦٢﴾ ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ وَكَانُوا۟ يَتَّقُونَ ﴿٦٣﴾ لَهُمُ ٱلْبُشْرَىٰ فِى ٱلْحَيَوٰةِ ٱلدُّنْيَا وَفِى ٱلْـَٔاخِرَةِ ۚ لَا تَبْدِيلَ لِكَلِمَـٰتِ ٱللَّـهِ ۚ ذَٰلِكَ هُوَ ٱلْفَوْزُ ٱلْعَظِيمُ ﴿٦٤

Unquestionably, [for] the allies of Allah (awliya') there will be no fear concerning them, nor will they grieve (62) Those who believed and were fearing Allah (63) For them are good tidings in the worldly life and in the Hereafter. No change is there in the words of Allah. That is what is the great attainment. (64)
[Qur'an Yunus 10-62:64]

The first condition to become a friend of Allah is Iman (Faith). One cannot claim to be a friend of Allah unless he has an unshaking belief in Allah’s Oneness and Unity. Attributing partners to Allah in belief and worship is most abhorring to Him. This belief, in order to be effective, requires complete trust and hope in Allah, submission to His Will and reliance on His aid. It secures man's dignity and saves him from fear and despair, from guilt and confusion.

Believing in Allah implies believing in His Names and Attributes, and other articles of Iman such as belief in the Angels, Divine Scriptures and Revelation, the Prophets and Messengers of God without any discrimination among them, the Day of Judgment (or afterlife) and the supremacy of God's Will (or pre-destination). This belief extends to believing in the life after death, the punishment and enjoyment in the grave, the Resurrection, Paradise and Hell, the Scale, the Throne, the Pond of Kauthar [hadith: Whoever drinks its water shall never be thirsty--Bukhari], the Bridge over Hell [hadith: The bridge over Hell will be thinner even than the hair and sharper than a sword--Bukhari; hadith: Every person, whether a hypocrite or a believer, would be endowed with a light, and there would be spikes and hooks on the bridge of the Hell, which would catch hold of those whom Allah willed. Then the light of the hypocrites would be extinguished, and the (good) believers would secure salvation (Paradise)--Muslim].

The second condition is the fear of Allah. This is best explained in the following verses of the Qur'an, where Allah Almighty categorically mentioned the true servants of Ar-Rahman.
وَعِبَادُ ٱلرَّحْمَـٰنِ ٱلَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى ٱلْأَرْضِ هَوْنًا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ ٱلْجَـٰهِلُونَ قَالُوا۟ سَلَـٰمًا ﴿٦٣﴾ وَٱلَّذِينَ يَبِيتُونَ لِرَبِّهِمْ سُجَّدًا وَقِيَـٰمًا ﴿٦٤﴾ وَٱلَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا ٱصْرِفْ عَنَّا عَذَابَ جَهَنَّمَ ۖ إِنَّ عَذَابَهَا كَانَ غَرَامًا ﴿٦٥﴾ إِنَّهَا سَآءَتْ مُسْتَقَرًّا وَمُقَامًا ﴿٦٦﴾ وَٱلَّذِينَ إِذَآ أَنفَقُوا۟ لَمْ يُسْرِفُوا۟ وَلَمْ يَقْتُرُوا۟ وَكَانَ بَيْنَ ذَٰلِكَ قَوَامًا ﴿٦٧
وَٱلَّذِينَ لَا يَدْعُونَ مَعَ ٱللَّـهِ إِلَـٰهًا ءَاخَرَ وَلَا يَقْتُلُونَ ٱلنَّفْسَ ٱلَّتِى حَرَّمَ ٱللَّـهُ إِلَّا بِٱلْحَقِّ وَلَا يَزْنُونَ ۚ وَمَن يَفْعَلْ ذَٰلِكَ يَلْقَ أَثَامًا ﴿٦٨﴾ يُضَـٰعَفْ لَهُ ٱلْعَذَابُ يَوْمَ ٱلْقِيَـٰمَةِ وَيَخْلُدْ فِيهِۦ مُهَانًا ﴿٦٩﴾ إِلَّا مَن تَابَ وَءَامَنَ وَعَمِلَ عَمَلًا صَـٰلِحًا فَأُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ يُبَدِّلُ ٱللَّـهُ سَيِّـَٔاتِهِمْ حَسَنَـٰتٍ ۗ وَكَانَ ٱللَّـهُ غَفُورًا رَّحِيمًا ﴿٧٠﴾ وَمَن تَابَ وَعَمِلَ صَـٰلِحًا فَإِنَّهُۥ يَتُوبُ إِلَى ٱللَّـهِ مَتَابًا ﴿٧١﴾ وَٱلَّذِينَ لَا يَشْهَدُونَ ٱلزُّورَ وَإِذَا مَرُّوا۟ بِٱللَّغْوِ مَرُّوا۟ كِرَامًا ﴿٧٢﴾ وَٱلَّذِينَ إِذَا ذُكِّرُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِ رَبِّهِمْ لَمْ يَخِرُّوا۟ عَلَيْهَا صُمًّا وَعُمْيَانًا ﴿٧٣﴾ وَٱلَّذِينَ يَقُولُونَ رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَٰجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّـٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَٱجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا ﴿٧٤

And the servants of the Most Merciful are those who walk upon the earth easily, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace, (63) And those who spend [part of] the night to their Lord prostrating and standing [in prayer] (64) And those who say, "Our Lord, avert from us the punishment of Hell. Indeed, its punishment is ever adhering; (65) Indeed, it is evil as a settlement and residence." (66) And [they are] those who, when they spend, do so not excessively or sparingly but are ever, between that, [justly] moderate (67) And those who do not invoke with Allah another deity or kill the soul which Allah has forbidden [to be killed], except by right, and do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse. And whoever should do that will meet a penalty. (68) Multiplied for him is the punishment on the Day of Resurrection, and he will abide therein humiliated - (69) Except for those who repent, believe and do righteous work. For them Allah will replace their evil deeds with good. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful. (70) And he who repents and does righteousness does indeed turn to Allah with [accepted] repentance. (71) And [they are] those who do not testify to falsehood, and when they pass near ill speech, they pass by with dignity. (72) And those who, when reminded of the verses of their Lord, do not fall upon them deaf and blind. (73) And those who say, "Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous." (74)
[Qur'an Al-Furqan 25:64-74]

The friends of Allah do not cause violence neither are they instrumental to disturbance of public peace. They are prompt in carrying out the injunctions of Allah and are conscious of the rights of other creatures.

These special qualities, among others, are what it requires to be a friend of Allah and enjoy His Love and Kindness.

One of the greatest signs that you are beloved to Allah is that the awliya' love you. One of the greatest signs that you love Allah is that you love the awliya'. Anyone who reach close to the awliya' and take their companionship and respects them, in reality that this is a means for that individual to attain closeness to Allah.

We cannot get close to Allah without the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, and without the Prophetic teachings. The scholars (ulama') are the inheritors of the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace. By you drawing near to a scholar, you are drawing near to the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, because the scholar is teaching you his Sunnah. Getting near to the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, is the ultimate way we draw close to Allah Almighty.

If Allah want good for you and want to bring you near to His Presence, He placed you with the People of Allah. The people of Qur'an are the People of Allah, the most elect among His creatures.

Any effort you put in to be close to Allah, He will make it easy for you to draw near to Him.

Abu Dharr, may Allah be pleased with him, reported that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
Allah the Mighty and Exalted, says, 'Anyone who comes with a good action will have ten like it or more. If anyone comes with a wrong action, the repayment of a wrong action is a wrong action like it or I will forgive him. If anyone approaches Me by a hand-span, I come to him an arm-span. If anyone approaches Me by an arm-span, I come to him two arm spans. If anyone approaches Me walking, I come to him running. If anyone meets Me with mistakes equivalent in weight to the whole earth, having not associated anything with Me, I will meet him with the same amount of forgiveness.
[Muslim]

On the authority of Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him, who said that the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: Allah (Mighty and Sublime be He) said:
Whosoever shows enmity to someone devoted to Me, I shall be at war with him. My servant draws not near to Me with anything more loved by Me than the religious duties I have enjoined upon him, and My servant continues to draw near to Me with supererogatory works so that I shall love him. When I love him I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask [something] of Me, I would surely give it to him, and were he to ask Me for refuge, I would surely grant him it. I do not hesitate about anything as much as I hesitate about [seizing] the soul of My faithful servant: he hates death and I hate hurting him.
[Bukhari]

May Allah grant us tawfiq. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

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Monday, June 11, 2012

Why It Is Difficult To Pray And Worship

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

If you find yourself having difficulties to wake up at night and pray tahajjud or to perform other forms of worship or do good deeds, like giving charity or paying zakat or helping people, scholars said first check if the food you eat is halal (lawful).

We should make sure our bodies are only fed with halal food--both the source and the kind must be halal. That will keep, not only our physical body healthy, but most importantly, it will keep our spiritual body healthy and strong.

If the body is used to being fed with unlawful food, then it is difficult for the limbs to do good. So, the body becomes weak and lazy to rise up for prayer, but finds it easy to rise up to go to the beach (and do all the preparation and find the means to get there) or play ping pong after a long hard day at work; the hands find difficulty to give charity and help people, but find it easy to take people's property without their consent--to cheat and to steal and to do other bad and evil things such as beating your wife or your children; the ears find it hard to listen to Qur'an, but find it easy to listen to music or backbiting and gossip; the tongue finds it difficult to do dhikr (remembrance of Allah) but find it easy to backbite, lie, argue, slander people, or joke; the eyes find it difficult to read and focus on the Qur'an but find it easy to read novels or look at the computer screen for hours; the legs find difficulty to walk to the masjid for prayer or for Islamic event but find it easy to walk in the mall for hours; etc; etc.

Allah says,
يَـٰٓأَيُّهَا ٱلَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا۟ كُلُوا۟ مِن طَيِّبَـٰتِ مَا رَزَقْنَـٰكُمْ وَٱشْكُرُوا۟ لِلَّـهِ إِن كُنتُمْ إِيَّاهُ تَعْبُدُونَ ﴿١٧٢﴾ إِنَّمَا حَرَّمَ عَلَيْكُمُ ٱلْمَيْتَةَ وَٱلدَّمَ وَلَحْمَ ٱلْخِنزِيرِ وَمَآ أُهِلَّ بِهِۦ لِغَيْرِ ٱللَّـهِ ۖ فَمَنِ ٱضْطُرَّ غَيْرَ بَاغٍ وَلَا عَادٍ فَلَآ إِثْمَ عَلَيْهِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّـهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ ﴿١٧٣

O you who have believed, eat from the good things which We have provided for you and be grateful to Allah if it is [indeed] Him that you worship. (172) He has only forbidden to you dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine, and that which has been dedicated to other than Allah. But whoever is forced [by necessity], neither desiring [it] nor transgressing [its limit], there is no sin upon him. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. (173)
[Qur'an Al-Baqarah 2:172-3]

In another verse, Allah says,
حُرِّمَتْ عَلَيْكُمُ ٱلْمَيْتَةُ وَٱلدَّمُ وَلَحْمُ ٱلْخِنزِيرِ وَمَآ أُهِلَّ لِغَيْرِ ٱللَّـهِ بِهِۦ وَٱلْمُنْخَنِقَةُ وَٱلْمَوْقُوذَةُ وَٱلْمُتَرَدِّيَةُ وَٱلنَّطِيحَةُ وَمَآ أَكَلَ ٱلسَّبُعُ إِلَّا مَا ذَكَّيْتُمْ وَمَا ذُبِحَ عَلَى ٱلنُّصُبِ وَأَن تَسْتَقْسِمُوا۟ بِٱلْأَزْلَـٰمِ ۚ ذَٰلِكُمْ فِسْقٌ ۗ ٱلْيَوْمَ يَئِسَ ٱلَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا۟ مِن دِينِكُمْ فَلَا تَخْشَوْهُمْ وَٱخْشَوْنِ ۚ ٱلْيَوْمَ أَكْمَلْتُ لَكُمْ دِينَكُمْ وَأَتْمَمْتُ عَلَيْكُمْ نِعْمَتِى وَرَضِيتُ لَكُمُ ٱلْإِسْلَـٰمَ دِينًا ۚ فَمَنِ ٱضْطُرَّ فِى مَخْمَصَةٍ غَيْرَ مُتَجَانِفٍ لِّإِثْمٍ ۙ فَإِنَّ ٱللَّـهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ ﴿٣﴾

Prohibited to you are dead animals, blood, the flesh of swine, and that which has been dedicated to other than Allah, and [those animals] killed by strangling or by a violent blow or by a head-long fall or by the goring of horns, and those from which a wild animal has eaten, except what you [are able to] slaughter [before its death], and those which are sacrificed on stone altars, and [prohibited is] that you seek decision through divining arrows. That is grave disobedience. This day those who disbelieve have despaired of [defeating] your religion; so fear them not, but fear Me. This day I have perfected for you your religion and completed My favor upon you and have approved for you Islam as religion. But whoever is forced by severe hunger with no inclination to sin - then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.
[Qur'an Ma'ida 5:3]

According to the law of Islam, all animals that are allowed as food must be slaughtered in such a manner that blood flows out. The Arabic word for slaughter is dhabaha, means he cut or divided lengthwise; in a general sense, he killed or slaughtered, and technically he slaughtered an animal in the manner prescribed by law, i.e. by cutting the two external jugular veins, or by butting the throat, from beneath, at the part next to the head.

There are many opinions out there about what is halal meat. If we follow opinions blindly, we might fall into the doubtful and ultimately haram. Remember, you have to answer to Allah yourself about what you did in this life, and no one will be there to help you.

You should also not assume that all meats in Islamic country are halal (or foods from Muslims are halal), because not all Muslims pay attention to this matter and some Muslim merchants would cut corners to make profit. I have heard that some establishments in some Islamic countries, in order to cater to the large demand, resorted to buy meats and poultry from large producers in non-Muslim countries which slaughtering practices may or may not comply to Islam.

So it behooves you to learn what is really halal to eat and what is not, and take the stricter path to be on the safe side, and make reasonable investigation if the food is halal or not, or don't eat it if it is doubtful.

It is critical that we keep away from sins, places of sins and things that can lead to sins, and adhere to the rulings of shari'ah in your dealings with others, especially with your parents and your womenfolk. Sin is one of the things that most distract a person from doing acts of worship and increase the Shaytan’s influence on you.

Also, it is vitally important to choose good friends and companions who are keen to pray and do good deeds, and keep away from those who are the opposite, because a person is influenced by his friends.

May Allah give us tawfiq to avoid haram and to do good. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam


Sunday, June 10, 2012

This World Is Not Worth It

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

This world is designed to disappoint us. No matter how much a person has, all the fame, power, money, wealth, children, family, health, knowledge, friends, protection and safety, comfort and luxuries, and so on, they are not lasting--they are always prone to disappear. This is the nature of dunya. Allah created them and Allah can take them away at any moment.

We can actually see this a lot during this world economic crisis--lay offs, fold up businesses, revolutions, etc. You can see people lose protection very quickly. One event can turn safety into fear. People lose their homes, parents lose their children, children lose their parents, spouses lose their spouses.

In normal realm, it also has its share of dysfunction--friends turn against friends, brothers against brothers, children against parents, spouses against spouses, workers against employers, people against their leaders, etc.

We see or hear deaths every day. We might be next. So this world is not worth it. Whether you work, marry, having children, pursue knowledge or do any other good deed, if you do it for this world it is not worth it.

Whatever we do in this life, do it for the sake of Allah Almighty only. Make Him our only goal in this life and we won't be sorry when we face the two questioners in the grave alone.

When the son of Adam dies and his soul departs and he is placed in his grave, then he is in the first stage of the Hereafter, because the grave is the first of the stages of the Hereafter.

It was narrated that Haani’ the freed slave of ‘Uthman ibn ‘Affaan said:
When ‘Uthman ibn ‘Affaan stood by a grave he would weep until his beard became wet. It was said to him, “You remember Paradise and Hell and you do not weep, but you weep because of this?” He said, “The Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: ‘The grave is the first of the stages of the Hereafter; whoever is saved from it, whatever comes afterwards will be easier for him, but if he is not saved from it, what comes afterwards will be worse for him.’” And the Messenger of Allah, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said: “I have never seen any scene but the grave is more frightening than it.
[Tirmidhi, ibn Majah]

It was narrated from Aisha that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, used to say:
Allaahumma inni a’oodhu bika min al-kasali wa’l-haram wa’l-maghram wa’l-ma’tham. Allaahumma inni a’oodhu bika min ‘adhaab al-naar wa fitnat il-naar, wa fitnat il-qabri, wa ‘adhaab il-qabri, wa sharri fitnat il-ghina wa sharri fitnat il-faqair wa min sharri fitnat il-maseeh il-Dajjaal. Allaahumma ighsil khataayaaya bi ma’ al-thalji wa’l-baradi wa naqqi qalbi min al-khataaya kama yunaqqa al-thawb al-abyad min al-danas, wa baa’id bayni wa bayna khataayaaya kama baa’adta bayna al-mashriqi wa’l-maghrib
(O Allah! I seek refuge with You from laziness and old age, and from debts and sins; from the torment of the Fire and from the tribulation of the Fire, and from the tribulation of the grave and the torment of the grave, and from the evil of the tribulation of wealth, and from the evil of the tribulation of poverty, and from the evil of the tribulation of the Dajjaal (Antichrist). O Allah! Wash away my sins with the water of snow and hail, and cleanse my heart from sin as a white garment is cleansed from filth, and put a great distance between me and my sins, as great as the distance You have made between the East and the West)
[Bukhari]

May Allah protect us from the trials and tribulations of this life and the next. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Saturday, June 9, 2012

Time Is Like A Sword; Better Sweat Now

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

If you don't busy your time with the good, it will busy you with the bad. Time is like a sword, if you don't cut it, it cuts you. You are essentially at war with time--if you surrender, it will pass you by without benefit; if you fight it, it will pass by in spite of you but you benefit.

Narrated by Ibn 'Abbaas, may Allah be pleased with father and son, who said that Allah's Messenger, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:

There are two blessings which many people lose: health and free time.
[Bukhari]

Now reflect on your life. How many years had gone by in sleeping, eating and disobeying Allah? How many days, hours, minutes and seconds had gone by without remembrance of Allah. Imagine if all those years were filled with the remembrance of Allah, Allah would've remembered us.

Allah Most High says,
فَٱذْكُرُونِىٓ أَذْكُرْكُمْ وَٱشْكُرُوا۟ لِى وَلَا تَكْفُرُونِ

So remember Me, and I will remember you; and be thankful to Me; and be you not ungrateful towards Me.
[Qur'an al-Baqarah 2:152]

We should have this sense of urgency because we don't have much time to prepare for our meeting with Allah. If you don't have a good intention and a good reason to do something and if this thing you are doing is for your nafs, then don't waste your life for it.

All the life span on this earth combined is nothing compared to the time we will spend waiting in the Day of Judgment.

The Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said that some of the people on that Day would be very affected by the sun, more intense than the heat of the sun in this world. Some people would sweat profusely. The sweat of some will cover their feet, while others will reach their knees. For some it will cover their whole lower body and for some other, it would reach their mouths. The level of sweat increases with the level of his sinning.

With the sun so close, some of the people will be shaded and will not be hurt by the sun. These are the Prophets and their pious followers. They will be shaded under Al-'Arsh (the Throne), the largest creation.

In a hadith, the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, tells us about seven kinds of people that will be shaded from the sun by the 'Arsh on the Day of Judgment. They will be on shining high places on the Day of Judgment. The seven kinds are:

1. The just ruler. Despite being in a position of power over people, he controls himself and is just with the people.

2. The one who grows up adhering to the obedience of Allah and stayed away from sinning even when young.

3. The one who is attached to the mosque. It is hard for the person to overcome his bad inclinations and come back to the mosque for every prayer but the one who overcomes his weaknesses and loves to come to the mosque for every prayer reaches a high status.

4. The people who love each other for the sake of Allah. They advise each other to do good deeds and to leave the bad deeds. They come together for the sake of Allah and leave each other for the sake of Allah.

5. The one who is called to fornication by a woman of high social status and beauty and says, “I fear Allah. I will not do that.”

6. The one who pays charity in secret, to the extent that his left hand does not know what his right hand does.

7. The one who mentions Allah when he is alone and cries out of fearing Him.

May Allah grant us works pleasing to Him and shade us where there is no other shade except under His Throne. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Friday, June 8, 2012

He Knows What You Are Up To

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Allah knows everything that is to be known. Not even the weight of the smallest particle that exists is hidden from the Divine's Knowledge.
وَمَا تَكُونُ فِى شَأْنٍ وَمَا تَتْلُوا۟ مِنْهُ مِن قُرْءَانٍ وَلَا تَعْمَلُونَ مِنْ عَمَلٍ إِلَّا كُنَّا عَلَيْكُمْ شُهُودًا إِذْ تُفِيضُونَ فِيهِ ۚ وَمَا يَعْزُبُ عَن رَّبِّكَ مِن مِّثْقَالِ ذَرَّةٍ فِى ٱلْأَرْضِ وَلَا فِى ٱلسَّمَآءِ وَلَآ أَصْغَرَ مِن ذَٰلِكَ وَلَآ أَكْبَرَ إِلَّا فِى كِتَـٰبٍ مُّبِينٍ

And, [O Muhammad], you are not [engaged] in any matter or recite any of the Qur'an and you [people] do not do any deed except that We are witness over you when you are involved in it. And not absent from your Lord is any [part] of an atom's weight within the earth or within the heaven or [anything] smaller than that or greater but that it is in a clear register.
[Qur'an Yunus 10:61]

Allah knows everything that is going on in this universe. He knows us and knows all our actions both good and bad. He knows the secrets in our hearts, the very depths of notions and our fleeting thoughts. Allah knows what you keep secret and what you keep public.

خَلَقَ ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٰتِ وَٱلْأَرْضَ بِٱلْحَقِّ وَصَوَّرَكُمْ فَأَحْسَنَ صُوَرَكُمْ ۖ وَإِلَيْهِ ٱلْمَصِيرُ ﴿٣﴾ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٰتِ وَٱلْأَرْضِ وَيَعْلَمُ مَا تُسِرُّونَ وَمَا تُعْلِنُونَ ۚ وَٱللَّـهُ عَلِيمٌۢ بِذَاتِ ٱلصُّدُورِ

He created the heavens and earth in truth and formed you and perfected your forms; and to Him is the [final] destination. (3) He knows what is within the heavens and earth and knows what you conceal and what you declare. And Allah is Knowing of that within the breasts.
[Qur'an At-Taghabun 64:3-4]

أَلَمْ تَرَ أَنَّ ٱللَّـهَ يَعْلَمُ مَا فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٰتِ وَمَا فِى ٱلْأَرْضِ ۖ مَا يَكُونُ مِن نَّجْوَىٰ ثَلَـٰثَةٍ إِلَّا هُوَ رَابِعُهُمْ وَلَا خَمْسَةٍ إِلَّا هُوَ سَادِسُهُمْ وَلَآ أَدْنَىٰ مِن ذَٰلِكَ وَلَآ أَكْثَرَ إِلَّا هُوَ مَعَهُمْ أَيْنَ مَا كَانُوا۟ ۖ ثُمَّ يُنَبِّئُهُم بِمَا عَمِلُوا۟ يَوْمَ ٱلْقِيَـٰمَةِ ۚ إِنَّ ٱللَّـهَ بِكُلِّ شَىْءٍ عَلِيمٌ

Have you not considered that Allah knows what is in the heavens and what is on the earth? There is in no private conversation three but that He is the fourth of them, nor are there five but that He is the sixth of them - and no less than that and no more except that He is with them [in knowledge] wherever they are. Then He will inform them of what they did, on the Day of Resurrection. Indeed Allah is, of all things, Knowing.
[Qur'an Al-Mujadilah 58:7]

May Allah grant us a sound heart and tawfiq to do good and to avoid evil and disobedience. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam



Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Two Great Blessings

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Allah blessed us first by creating us and He bless us again by continuously maintaining and sustaining us. These are the two great blessings that many people don't want to realize. And that's why many are heedless of Allah until Allah drops upon them calamity, and that's good for them because it is another chance for them to turn to Allah. If they realize this and be grateful and shape up, then it is good for them. If they don't, then they are the utter losers.

Fir'aun (Pharoah of Egypt) was so deluded with his life of splendor and riches until he thought of himself as god and when he realized that he wasn't god (before he was drowned in the sea), it was obviously too late. We don't want to be in that situation.
وَجَـٰوَزْنَا بِبَنِىٓ إِسْرَٰٓءِيلَ ٱلْبَحْرَ فَأَتْبَعَهُمْ فِرْعَوْنُ وَجُنُودُهُۥ بَغْيًا وَعَدْوًا ۖ حَتَّىٰٓ إِذَآ أَدْرَكَهُ ٱلْغَرَقُ قَالَ ءَامَنتُ أَنَّهُۥ لَآ إِلَـٰهَ إِلَّا ٱلَّذِىٓ ءَامَنَتْ بِهِۦ بَنُوٓا۟ إِسْرَٰٓءِيلَ وَأَنَا۠ مِنَ ٱلْمُسْلِمِينَ ﴿٩٠﴾ ءَآلْـَٔـٰنَ وَقَدْ عَصَيْتَ قَبْلُ وَكُنتَ مِنَ ٱلْمُفْسِدِينَ ﴿٩١﴾ فَٱلْيَوْمَ نُنَجِّيكَ بِبَدَنِكَ لِتَكُونَ لِمَنْ خَلْفَكَ ءَايَةً ۚ وَإِنَّ كَثِيرًا مِّنَ ٱلنَّاسِ عَنْ ءَايَـٰتِنَا لَغَـٰفِلُونَ

And We took the Children of Israel across the sea, and Pharaoh and his soldiers pursued them in tyranny and enmity until, when drowning overtook him, he said, "I believe that there is no deity except that in whom the Children of Israel believe, and I am of the Muslims." (90) Now? And you had disobeyed [Him] before and were of the corrupters?
[Qur'an Yunus 10:90-91]
ذَٰلِكَ بِمَا قَدَّمَتْ أَيْدِيكُمْ وَأَنَّ ٱللَّـهَ لَيْسَ بِظَلَّـٰمٍ لِّلْعَبِيدِ ﴿٥١﴾ كَدَأْبِ ءَالِ فِرْعَوْنَ ۙ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ ۚ كَفَرُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِ ٱللَّـهِ فَأَخَذَهُمُ ٱللَّـهُ بِذُنُوبِهِمْ ۗ إِنَّ ٱللَّـهَ قَوِىٌّ شَدِيدُ ٱلْعِقَابِ ﴿٥٢﴾

ذَٰلِكَ بِأَنَّ ٱللَّـهَ لَمْ يَكُ مُغَيِّرًا نِّعْمَةً أَنْعَمَهَا عَلَىٰ قَوْمٍ حَتَّىٰ يُغَيِّرُوا۟ مَا بِأَنفُسِهِمْ ۙ وَأَنَّ ٱللَّـهَ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ ﴿٥٣﴾ كَدَأْبِ ءَالِ فِرْعَوْنَ ۙ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ ۚ كَذَّبُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِ رَبِّهِمْ فَأَهْلَكْنَـٰهُم بِذُنُوبِهِمْ وَأَغْرَقْنَآ ءَالَ فِرْعَوْنَ ۚ وَكُلٌّ كَانُوا۟ ظَـٰلِمِينَ ﴿٥٤﴾

That is for what your hands have put forth [of evil] and because Allah is not ever unjust to His servants." (51) [Theirs is] like the custom of the people of Pharaoh and of those before them. They disbelieved in the signs of Allah, so Allah seized them for their sins. Indeed, Allah is Powerful and severe in penalty. (52) That is because Allah would not change a favor which He had bestowed upon a people until they change what is within themselves. And indeed, Allah is Hearing and Knowing. (53) [Theirs is] like the custom of the people of Pharaoh and of those before them. They denied the signs of their Lord, so We destroyed them for their sins, and We drowned the people of Pharaoh. And all [of them] were wrongdoers. (54)
[Qur'an Al-Anfal 8:51-54]
كَدَأْبِ ءَالِ فِرْعَوْنَ وَٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ ۚ كَذَّبُوا۟ بِـَٔايَـٰتِنَا فَأَخَذَهُمُ ٱللَّـهُ بِذُنُوبِهِمْ ۗ وَٱللَّـهُ شَدِيدُ ٱلْعِقَابِ ﴿١١﴾

[Theirs is] like the custom of the people of Pharaoh and those before them. They denied Our signs, so Allah seized them for their sins. And Allah is severe in penalty. (11)
[Qur'an AleIman 3:11]

May Allah keep us from disobedience and make us among His grateful servants. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Monday, June 4, 2012

I Love The Righteous

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

A conversation between Imam Shafi'i and Imam Ahmad, may Allah have mercy on them.

Imam Shafi'i said:

احب الصالحين ولست منهم *** لعلي أن انال بهم شفاعة
واكره من تجارته المعاصي *** وإن كنا سواء في البضاعة

I love the righteous, although I'm not of them
Perhaps I shall receive intercession through them
And I hate he who trades in sins (deals in acts of disobedience)
Although we are both dealing in the same trade.

So Imam Ahmad responded:

فرد عليه الامام احمد رحمه الله

تحب الصالحين وانت منهم *** ومنكم سوف يلقون الشفاعة
وتكره من تجارته المعاصي *** وقانا الله من شر البضاعة

You love the righteous and you are of them
And from you shall they receive intercession
And you hate he who trades in sins
May Allah protect us from the evil of such trade

We should love the righteous people and not considered ourselves as one of them. May Allah make us humble and make us among the righteous and the truthful. Ameen.

Biography of the four great Imams

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Sunday, June 3, 2012

We Hear And We Obey

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

Spending on others is one of the wonderful secrets in Islam. When we spend on others, Allah will repay us in manifold.
قُلْ إِنَّ رَبِّى يَبْسُطُ ٱلرِّزْقَ لِمَن يَشَآءُ مِنْ عِبَادِهِۦ وَيَقْدِرُ لَهُۥ ۚ وَمَآ أَنفَقْتُم مِّن شَىْءٍ فَهُوَ يُخْلِفُهُۥ ۖ وَهُوَ خَيْرُ ٱلرَّٰزِقِينَ

Say, "Indeed, my Lord extends provision for whom He wills of His servants and restricts [it] for him. But whatever thing you spend [in His cause] - He will compensate it; and He is the best of providers."
[Qur'an Saba 34:39]
مَّثَلُ ٱلَّذِينَ يُنفِقُونَ أَمْوَٰلَهُمْ فِى سَبِيلِ ٱللَّـهِ كَمَثَلِ حَبَّةٍ أَنۢبَتَتْ سَبْعَ سَنَابِلَ فِى كُلِّ سُنۢبُلَةٍ مِّا۟ئَةُ حَبَّةٍ ۗ وَٱللَّـهُ يُضَـٰعِفُ لِمَن يَشَآءُ ۗ وَٱللَّـهُ وَٰسِعٌ عَلِيمٌ

The example of those who spend their wealth in the way of Allah is like a seed [of grain] which grows seven spikes; in each spike is a hundred grains. And Allah multiplies [His reward] for whom He wills. And Allah is all-Encompassing and Knowing.
[Qur'an Al-Baqarah 2:261]

But this is not the reason why we spend on others. We spend on others because it is His command and it is the Prophetic way, Allah bless him and grant him peace. We spend and we ask Allah for forgiveness because we haven't done enough.
قَالُوا۟ سَمِعْنَا وَأَطَعْنَا ۖ غُفْرَانَكَ رَبَّنَا وَإِلَيْكَ ٱلْمَصِيرُ

...And they say, "We hear and we obey. [We seek] Your forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the [final] destination."
[Qur'an Al-Baqarah 2:285]

May Allah make us His obedient servants. Ameen. Please don't forget us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Saturday, June 2, 2012

Four Wives

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wives. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies. He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He’s very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and in fact is the merchant’s confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant’s 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, “Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I’ll be alone. How lonely I’ll be!”

Thus, he asked the 4th wife, “I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No way!” replied the 4th wife and she walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant’s heart.

The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, “I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I’m dying, will you follow me and keep me company?” “No!” replied the 3rd wife. “Life is so good over here! I’m going to remarry when you die!” The merchant’s heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife, “I always turned to you for help and you’ve always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?” “I’m sorry, I can’t help you out this time!” replied the 2nd wife. “At the very most, I can only send you to your grave.” The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : “I’ll live with you. I’ll follow you no matter where you go.” The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, “I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !”

Actually, we all have 4 wives in our lives

a. The 4th wife is our body. No matter how much time and effort we lavish in making it look good, it’ll leave us when we die.

b. Our 3rd wife is our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

c. The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we’re alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

d. The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure. Guess what? It is actually the only thing that follows us wherever we go. Perhaps it’s a good idea to cultivate and strengthen it now rather than to wait until we’re on our deathbed to lament.

Allah says,
يَوْمَ لَا يَنفَعُ مَالٌ وَلَا بَنُونَ ﴿٨٨﴾ إِلَّا مَنْ أَتَى اللَّـهَ بِقَلْبٍ سَلِيمٍ

The Day when there will not benefit [anyone] wealth or children (88) But only one who comes to Allah with a sound heart.
[Qur'an Ash-Shu'ara 26:88-89]

Narrated by Abu Hurayra, may Allah be pleased with him, that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
"Verily Allah does not look to your bodies nor to your faces but He looks to your hearts."
And he pointed towards the heart with his fingers.
[Sahih Muslim]

May Allah give us a sound heart. Ameen.

Please keep us in your night prayers. Jazakallahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam

Friday, June 1, 2012

If You Are Caught Lying

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate
Assalaamu alaykum

Dear Friends

I pray that you are well.

If it is not true, it is a lie. Someone who lies has one of the four characteristics of a hypocrite.

Narrated ‘Abdullah bin ‘Amr that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
Whoever has (the following) four characters will be a hypocrite, and whoever has one of the following four characteristics will have one characteristic of hypocrisy until he gives it up. These are: (1 ) Whenever he talks, he tells a lie; (2) whenever he makes a promise, he breaks it; (3) whenever he makes a covenant he proves treacherous; (4) and whenever he quarrels, he behaves impudently in an evil insulting manner.
[Bukhari]

Allah Almighty says:
إِنَّ اللَّـهَ جَامِعُ الْمُنَافِقِينَ وَالْكَافِرِينَ فِي جَهَنَّمَ جَمِيعًا ....

...Indeed Allah will gather the hypocrites and disbelievers in Hell all together.
[Qur'an An-Nisa 4:140]

Abdullah bin Mas`ud, Allah bless him and grant him peace, reported that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
It is incumbent upon you to be always truthful, for truthfulness guides to absolute piety and piety leads to Paradise. A man who always tells the truth and pursues the truth is written with Allah as a truthful one. Refrain from lying, for lying guides to sinfulness and sinfulness leads to Hellfire. A man continues to tell lies and pursues lies until he is written with Allah as a liar
[Bukhari and Muslim]

It is reported that the Prophet, Allah bless him and grant him peace, said:
No father can give his children a better gift than good manners.
[Tirmidhi]

It is important that our children learned that lying has consequences, one of which is curfew or grounded (or lose one or more privileges, etc). Tell your children the truth, promote honesty and be there to catch them with loving arms and held to uphold truth.

When someone catches one telling an untruth, it is embarrassing and uncomfortable for both the liar and the recipient of the lie.

DON'T # 1 - Continue to Lie

The worst thing you can do when your dishonesty has been discovered, is to continue lying. Children are taught at a young age that one lie will always beget another. No matter how "risk-free" the fib seems, at some point it will need to be covered up with another lie in order to be validated. Attempting to remember all the layers of untruth can be extremely nerve-wracking, not to mention unnecessary.

DON'T #2 - Become Defensive

Never become defensive when someone confronts you about the falsehood(s) you've presented. Sometimes people embarrassed at being caught in a lie, will search for someone or something else onto which to place the blame. Sometimes this happens during romantic arguments. Sometimes it occurs in the workplace. Wherever it happens, know that "playing the victim" only serves to make you look worse. In essence, you will appear to be a "weasel" who avoids responsibility for his/her own actions.

DON'T #3 - Forget Why You Lied

The most important thing not to do is to forget why you've lied in the first place. Certainly, you've met someone who can only relay personal anecdotes that are embellished in some way. While some may not understand why people choose to add false details to their stories, it is clear that the person who does so is looking to boost his/her self-esteem. The motive for one's lie may not always be apparent. Think about why you chose to tell an untruth. Was it to save face? Protect someone's feelings? If so, there are many different alternatives to lying. Getting to the root of the need to fib will help you address any personal issues that you may be unaware of. Remember that "little white lies" can seem harmless. But engaging in a consistent pattern of telling them is probably an indicator that a deeper problem exists.

DO #1 - Fess Up

Admit right away that you have lied. Even if the truth is plainly visible in "black and white," the person to whom you have fibbed will appreciate the acknowledgment. In fact, most people will be more offended because they feel that their intelligence has been insulted, if you continue on in your charade.

DO #2 - Explain Yourself

After you've been found out, the next best thing to do is offer a little explanation. Perhaps the lie you've told is just a little white one. Or maybe it's a huge whopper of a story. Either way, a brief justification can do a world of good. People sometimes will feel better if they understand the nature of your dishonesty.

DO #3 - Apologize

An apology can go a long way when it comes to mending fences with someone whom you have betrayed. The acknowledgment of a fib is certainly necessary. But expressing sincere regret for the attempt to fool someone is even better. Lying is one of those things that people find harmless justifications for. Whether or not the end justifies the means is a moot point when someone realizes that they've been duped.

May Allah make us among the truthful, protect us from hypocrisy and save us from Hellfile. Ameen.

Please don't forget us in your night prayers. JazakAllahu khairan.

And Allah knows best.
Wassalaam