Don't Cause Your Parents to be Sad or Angry
Your parents are a huge blessing, and you should show gratitude to them. If you are not grateful to your parents, you are not grateful to Allah because He is the One who gave you your parents.
Abu Umamah narrated that a man said: “O Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ), what are the rights of parents over their child?” He said: “They are your Paradise and your Hell.” [Sunan Ibn Majah]
If you have parents, be extremely nice to them and respect and honor them. Don’t cause them grief or anger. And to your mother, show her you love her more than anyone by keeping good companionship with her, for you can't repay her even for one moan of labor pains giving birth to you, let alone all her efforts raising you until you can be independent.
Abu Burdah reported: Ibn Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) watched a Yemeni man circling the House while carrying his mother on his back, saying, “I am her humble camel. If her mount is scared, I am not scared.” Then he said, “O Ibn Umar, do you think I have repaid her?” Ibn Umar said, “No, not even for a single pang of pregnancy.” [Bukhari, Al-Adab Al-Mufrad]
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